My Insecurities..

[posh26]

I am going throught something I dont know.
Maybe it's called insecurities.
I gained weight so much.
From 27inches waistline I had 30 inches
and when I controlled my meals,
I now have 29.
My arms are so big that a stranger would call me
"Pata" 
I am so ashamed of myself.
Even though I try to eat once a day,
my waistline is still the same.
I feel so fat.

Second thing is my skin asthma.
It makes me so ugly.
My derma said na walang treatment dito.
Only maintenance of their pricey ointments.
I cant afford to go to derma every week.

I wouldn't be so surprise if one day,
kung maturn off nalang sakin ang bf ko

[mangaagaw]

Aww. Don't worry, okay lang yan. Hindi naman competition kung sino yung pinakamaganda e.

To that stranger, I woulda said "pata? Gusto mo pakain ko pa sayo?"

Don't mind them, be healthy and exercise daily. Wag din mafrustrate lagi(: kaya mo yan.

[-babes-]

aww. is that so?
just have a healthy meal everyday, yung tama lang and always have your exercise and you could try joining dance activities or mountain hiking. basta, mga activities that would help you sweat.
and also.. wag kang mag-alala whether maturn off or not ang boyfie mo, if he really loves you, he wouldn't care what you look like, he only sees you as beautiful kahit ano pa ang weight at hitsura mo.
be confident at yourself and that would really make you beautiful, the right confidence!

[vanity_strikes]

ako din i have insecurities malaman kasi ako pero i feel fat tlga as in obese pero sabi nila di naman daw.. i have shorter neck kasi kaya chubby tignan face ko..and cguro puro kasi skinny friends ko na araw araw ko na kasama kaya tingin ko ang taba ko..but my 2 friends who are skinny ung isa may asthma ung isa naman may skin asthma and i have nothing but a healthy and smooth body. kaya thankful na rin ako. walang cure sa skin asthma or asthma kaya thankful na lang ako i just think the brighter side of it.

[paper_doll]

aww. you know i've gone through the same thing, and i think still going through..

i think you need to change your mind set, then don't look for fashion mags, it'll just eat the confidence out of you when you contemplate about their faces or figure..

just do the right thing, diet, exercise, take care of yourself and your health, healthy living lifestyle, it will bring the beauty out of you., i'm not sugarcoating this but it's true, once you live healthy, your perspective about your dilemma will change.

[msjane]

it's called puberty - don't worry you won't stop growing/changing until you are 21?

[la_bea17]

Hya naku sis. Mas madami pa nga akong dapat ika-insecure nuh. I have big thigs, scars from pimples, super wavy hair, and a lot more. Oo before sobrang insecure ako, lalo na with the pimple scars kaya kahit nagggym ako nagmamake-up pa ko, pero ngayon pinabayaan ko na lang. So what kung makita man nila yung mga pimple scars ko? I'm not impressing anybody din naman.

You'll get through it, sis.
Confidence lang, and so what attitude lang

[Ishy]

I have insecurities too. Wala naman perfect. Alter your thoughts. Instead on focusing in those areas, focus on your assets.

I took a good number of psychology classes already and ilang studies na din yung namention sa classes ko na in the end yung ugali pa din daw yung nakikita at vinavalue nung mga lalaki. mahirap intindihin yun kasi parang ang dalang natin makita yun pero sa totoo lang ganun talaga. totoo yung sinasabi na kung mahal ka nung guy eh kung yung ganyan lang issue eh di man niya hahayaan yan na masira kayo.

[sticko_monster]

i have lot of insecurities din. Tamad na nga aong pumasok dahil ang pangit na tingnan ng uniform ko sakin. Tsaka mga tao sa school. Puro taba ko na lang pinapansin. I gained 40 pounds kasi. 18 kilos. Isipin ninyo. 18 kilo ng bigas. Ganun kabigat nadagdag sa katawan ko. Ang bigat no. Tapos with this big thighs pa. argh. Lagi ko na lang kinompare self ko sa iba. IT SUCKS. nakaka stress. nakaka loka. nakaka panget lalo.haha

[la_bea17]

Mas lalong nakakstress nuh kung skinny at sexy mga friends natin. haha. Lalo lang kinocompare yung sarili sa ibang tao. Ang hirap talaga kapag madaming insecurities.

[xhiexhie]

``well oo nakakainsecure kasama ang mga skinny friends hehe .. kung pwede lang ba pisilin ang taba at ibaon. dami ko din insecurities, thinning hair, side belly, braso, pimples. haizzz .. cant avoid to think ...

[la_bea17]

Hmm ako nung super dmaimkong pimples, sobra, naisip ko kung hindi ba pwedeng i-scrape na lang para mawala eh. haha kaloka.

[josele]

ako din i reaaly hate my legs huhu pumangit siya yung since nag shave ako... plus yung mga allergies ko nun sa soap.. kaya ng ka scar di talga ako makapag short mejo fair pa yung skin ko kaya halata na may peklat. naiingit ako sa magaganda ang legs.
and no mataba na din ako 29 din ang waistline ko huhuhuhu
my mom calls me chingching"in short" tabachingching..
madami nakapansin na tumataba ako...
hayyyy... hirap!!

[posh26]

cge magdamayan tayo dito sa thread na to..
ty nga pala sa nagbibigay ng advice ah
napapagkamalan kasi ako na preggy
kaya d ko mapigilan mag isip. 

[purple_snow]

aww ganyan din problem ko gurl simula ng 1st year college me.. 

mataba din ako tapos medyo grabe yung keratosis pilaris (chicken skin) ko s arms..  inaasar ako nung clasmates kong guys, even my crush... at home, ill super cry na lang kasi minsan grabe sila mangasar, to the point na inaasar nila ko in front of our other classmates which is really embrassing... sa sobrang depressed ko, nawalan na ko ng ganang kumain.. maraming nagsasabing pumayat ako pero di naman yung skinny na talaga, kaso feeling ko antaba ko pa rin kasi nga most of my classmates are skinny..  akala ko before basta pumayat ako okey na kaso parang di pa rin ako kuntento.. analaki pa rin ng tiyan at arms ko eh.. haha