did your parents ever hit you?

[shatteredDOLL*]

Yeah. They hit me before, tapos minsan nga kinurot ako ng mom ko, sa may hita, sobrang sakit tapos namasa. I forgot the reason why, tapos binuhusan na rin ako ng tubig, tapos sinampal. HEHEH.

[missvampirefreaxx]

uu naman..nung bata pa ako.
sinisinturon pa nga ako eh..pag nag'aaway kami ng kuya ko.
ngaun sinasampal na lang..haha
pero ok lang.. i understand. minsan lang naman eh.

[pseudomaggie]

not even a swat. my parents didn't believe in spanking (even if they got a lot of flak for that cuz nga of the spare the rod, spoil the child bit from the bible - pero feeling ko matino naman kaming magkakapatid, lol). we got sent to timeout and i remember my mom ignoring me for a day, but that's it.

[katzjoli]

Yes.. And it has been a trauma to me eversince..

Hindi na talaga ako naniniwala sa slapping or hitting a child kasi
from what happened to me, matigas padin naman ulo ko
and sadly, namamalo nadin ako.. 

[purpled_haze]

i was never hit by my parents.. and i'm happy about that but why do other parents do?

*share po kau.. *

you're so lucky...

as for me oo, i've been hit na and i won't say how many times kasi i can't remember na eh....
tsaka if kukuwento ko baka "Maalaala Mo Kaya" iyong kalabasan...hahaha...

i remember calling Bantay Bata once because i had enough of what my Mom is doing to me.......
pero nothing went to our house to talk to her or say na super mali na nung ginagawa niya.....

My Mom's a teacher so at first, you wouldn't really think na ganun pala siya....

basta daming bad memories.....eto pah i remember calling sa Globe kasi nasira ko ung c.p ng mom ko (i think i was about 9 yrs. old then) and di ko pa alam na dapat sa Service center  ako ng Nokia tatawag....

i was beaten up....and my mom told me to call sa globe...i called naman....i was crying while talking to the operator....grabe tinanong talaga ako nung operator kung bakit ako umiiyak... and i won't say a thing kasi nasa harap ko ung Mom ko.....

 I KNOW...it was horrible....

[purpled_haze]

Si Mama? Sinampal niya ata ako nun tapos kinurot. Kasi malaki yata kasalanan ko nun. Pero I deserved it. Kaso nga lang, masakit at saka umiyak ako nun. Pahiya pa ako 

hehehe...mas nakakahiya iyong sakin lumabas ako ng ng bahay in my undies because my mom was beating me up.... hindi ko na maalala kung bakit siya nagalit......

oh well, bata pa naman ako nun eh...and it was one of my many horrible days with my mom.......

[purpled_haze]

Yes.. And it has been a trauma to me eversince..

Hindi na talaga ako naniniwala sa slapping or hitting a child kasi
from what happened to me, matigas padin naman ulo ko
and sadly, namamalo nadin ako.. 

actually hindi ako na-trauma eh...parang namuo iyong galit ko sa Mom ko....pag pinapagalitan niya ako i end up shouting at her....alam ko masama iyon pero minsan i just can't control myself...

[purpled_haze]

Yes they did.

Yung pinaka huli ay yung nasampal ako nung father ko.

ako din sis...huling SAMPAL ng tatay ko...i hope its the first and the last nah...ang saket eh....bigat ng kamay niya....

[purpled_haze]

daddy ko... sa sobrang galit niya sa akin, sinampal niya ako...
tapos si mommy rin, di lang ako nakapag urong binugnog na ako..
pero dati pa yun eh...
 ngayon di na...kaya okay na ako...kaso minumura naman nila ako ngayon...
 

oo nga hindi na nga pinapalo, minumura naman...wahaha...

ithink mabait naman talga mga parents ko (hahaha) its just that siguro when they were young pah ganun din iyong ginagawa sa kanila kaya ayun na-adapt nila siguro.....

ako nga din eh parang ganun na...hahaha....madali magalit pero hindi naman nananakit....

[katzjoli]

actually hindi ako na-trauma eh...parang namuo iyong galit ko sa Mom ko....pag pinapagalitan niya ako i end up shouting at her....alam ko masama iyon pero minsan i just can't control myself...

Yes actually parang yun din yung isa pang gusto kong sabihin..
Pero everytime na sumisigaw yung mama ko sakin super lakas ng tibok ng puso ko na as if she's going to hit me again..
Pero eto, tumanda nako and I ended up having a revenge.. 

I also shouted her once or twice and ewan ko bigla nalang nya ako sinapak sa braso....
siguro sa super gigil.. pero I know we both have mistakes..
Ako, mali kong lumaban.. Sya mali nyang manakit kasi galit sya..
Kasi if you want to slap your kid, make sure hindi out of galit, but because you really want to discpline a child.... diba? 

[sweetuam]

Oo, nung bata ako at nung minsan, sumasagot kasi ako kaya nasampal ako   

[cutie_trish18]

i just cant understand why you have to slapped your child if you want to discpline your him or her?

sa ibang bansa nga bawal yung ganun makukulong ka but hindi naman matigas ulo nila..

most of my friends na mababait hindi sila pinapalo ng parents nila kahit may mali silang nagawa.

me? 18 years of my all they hit me.

matigas daw and ulo ko and i admit that yah im stubborn but i think its not good if you hit your child. maraming way to discpline them like higpitan mo. yung luho wag ibigay.

haayzz...

one time sa sobrang gigil ko nasabi ko na lang sa mami ko na sana patayin niya na ko.. i dont know why i said that, i think its because of the pain that ive been keeping since the day na nagkaisip ako.

[purpled_haze]

Yes actually parang yun din yung isa pang gusto kong sabihin..
Pero everytime na sumisigaw yung mama ko sakin super lakas ng tibok ng puso ko na as if she's going to hit me again..
Pero eto, tumanda nako and I ended up having a revenge.. 

I also shouted her once or twice and ewan ko bigla nalang nya ako sinapak sa braso....
siguro sa super gigil.. pero I know we both have mistakes..
Ako, mali kong lumaban.. Sya mali nyang manakit kasi galit sya..
Kasi if you want to slap your kid, make sure hindi out of galit, but because you really want to discpline a child.... diba? 

I agree, but my mom kasi....i don't believe na she's disciplining us...because if she were...di sana matitino na kami...pero eto kami ngayon...mahirap pagsabihan...

...i love my mom...ang ayaw ko lang talaga eh iyong ugali niyang ganun,,,,

iyong way niya ng pagdidisiplina eh kasama na rin ung panlalait sa iyo...na kesyo "wala akong kwenta", na "palamon" ako...

so minsan parang feeling ko din wala nga talaga akong kwenta....
kaya nga minsan wini-wish ko na sana PERFECT na lang ako...kasi masyadong demanding ung nanay ko eh...PERFECTIONIST parang ganun...

tsaka naisip niyo na bah na sana iba na lang ung nanay niyo? kasi ako, OO eh....siguro out of GALIT lang iyon kung bakit ko naisip..or siguro din kasi pagod na ko sa pangda-down niya...

kasi suppose to be dapat iyong mga nanay iyong nakakaintindi sa mga anak di bah....

[purpled_haze]

i just cant understand why you have to slapped your child if you want to discpline your him or her?

sa ibang bansa nga bawal yung ganun makukulong ka but hindi naman matigas ulo nila..

most of my friends na mababait hindi sila pinapalo ng parents nila kahit may mali silang nagawa.

me? 18 years of my all they hit me.

matigas daw and ulo ko and i admit that yah im stubborn but i think its not good if you hit your child. maraming way to discpline them like higpitan mo. yung luho wag ibigay.

haayzz...

one time sa sobrang gigil ko nasabi ko na lang sa mami ko na sana patayin niya na ko.. i dont know why i said that, i think its because of the pain that ive been keeping since the day na nagkaisip ako.

ako din i nearly said it, and actually kukuha pa sana ako ng knife tas sasabihin ko "eto saksakin niyo na lang ako kaysa magkaron ako ng nanay na katulad niyo"....i was really at the verge of doing that...kaso may natitira pa kong respetoh eh...

ganun lang talaga siguro minsan...nadadala ka ng KADRAMAHAN ng BUHAY....

[katzjoli]

I agree, but my mom kasi....i don't believe na she's disciplining us...because if she were...di sana matitino na kami...pero eto kami ngayon...mahirap pagsabihan...

I agree.. 

It's ok lang po, maybe she's just pressured sa mga personal problems nya..
Pero kahit na ganun sila satin, pusod padin nila ang pusod natin..
Blood is thicker than water. (my fave family line)hehe
She's nothing without you so, if we got all the understanding, we better much do, kasi they are our mothers..