Hello girls. Thanks for your patience. I will try to answer all your questions, one at a time, this weekend. I will update the post as I answer each question. Have a good weekend everyone.
@ Onefivefour - Hello. Thanks for posting a question. I hope all is well on your side. Thanks for your good remarks in regards to my answers here in this thread. Guys that are gay can fall under one of two categories of gay guys. The first gay guy is the one that feels he is a female and only wants to have intimate relationships with other guys and not with females. Then there is the second gay guy. This is the bisexual gay guy. He is open to intimate relationships with guys and girls. Also, just because a guy is gay does not mean he will be gay all his life. Most of them stay gay. However, there is a very select few who after a sexual encounter with a female may like it, and it would be a life altering event for him, allowing him to go straight and turn his back on being gay. But this is a very rare occurrence, at the majority of gay guys will not partake in a sexual encounter with a female, because it would repulse them. It’s the same feeling as straight guys having sex with other guys, or straight girls having sex with other girls, it would be unfathomable to them, because it would be very gross to them.
It is easy for your friends to say that, because they are not in your situation. Plus regarding personal matters such as that (being friends or not with an ex-boyfriend), your friends should not be nosy, and should give you the courtesy to but out. I mean would your friends like it, if for example the President of the Philippines is nosy and tells them that they can’t say anything bad about a politician and should just shut up? I am sure they would not. They are the ones that are immature and not you. Why? Because being nosy and blurting out opinions, which is the same as the majority in the group, is a sign of immaturity, because they are not strong enough to defend both sides of the argument. There is no right or wrong answers on this. It should be up to the individual’s choice. And whatever is her choice, it is the correct choice. If she wants to be friends with him, then that is the right choice. If she doesn’t want to be friends wth him, that is a correct choice as well. That is your right as an individual. There is no existing law that can tell you otherwise on what is the right or wrong choice regarding that matter.
Once again thanks for asking a question, and feel free to drop by again anytime. Have a good weekend.
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@ Blogger.16 - Hello. Thanks for posting a question. I hope all is well on your side. You are welcome. It’s always better to get answers from both perspectives. It’s incomplete for a female to receive answers from from the same gender (females) when the question is about the opposite gender, which are males. You don’t get a complete picture, you only get a partial answer, and at the same time, the answer provided could be biased depending female’s experience towards her male relationships in the past. Thanks for the positive remarks. I am glad to have helped you out here, and feel free to drop by anytime. Have a good weekend.
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@ Zzmahj_aRCi - Hello. Thanks for posting a question. I hope all is well on your side. A guy has already moved on, when he is already seeing another girl. That is the most basic answer to the question. Also, when he is always busy and is pretty oblivious that his ex-girlfriend even exists also shows that he is over her. He doesn’t constantly ask her friends about her is another sign that he is over her. Basically, if he doesn’t entertain the notion that he needs any update about his ex-girlfriend, is the surest sign he is over her.
The only way a guy is serious about a girl, is if he is willing to invest time and slow-playing his relationship with her, allowing their relationship to grow and blossom into a very beautiful relationship. One that is beneficial in growth and where the love grows. He doesn’t want to rush things, and allows the girl to be comfortable in how long it takes, is a sign of seriousness. If he wants to rush things, wants action immediately, or complains that he can’t even get a kiss or sex, then he is not serious. If a guy loves a girl for real, then time is no problem at all, because in all seriousness he has found the love of his life and will want to eventually marry her. Those who don’t just want the sex, and after it is consummated will break up with her, and move on to the next girl that fancies him. So that is the basic difference in a guy’s seriousness and non-seriousness towards a girl. Thanks for asking your questions, and feel free to drop by anytime. Have a good weekend.
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@ Akosibaby - Hello. Thanks for posting a question. I hope all is well on your side. Oh yes, all questions are welcome here, so feel free to ask your questions here anytime. All the guys I know do not stalk their ex-girlfriends. This is the normal behavior. This is because there is no reason to do that kind of thing because there is nothing wrong with their normal minds.
Now, stalking is a very deviant behavior, and the guy doing the stalking has some psychological problems, that depends on the level, can be very dangerous towards the girl. A lot of worse case scenarios can emerge from this sort of bad behavior. A lot of stalkers stalk because there are scenes that go through their minds, and a lot of them are bad for the person being stalked. A lot of homicides are the result of being stalked by the murderer. The number one crime in the world, are crimes of passion, where the ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend stalks their ex and could not help themselves because they are emotionally stunted and cannot grow emotionally because of their abnormal behavior, and deliberately or non-deliberately end up hurting their ex when things go wrong or don’t go as planned. The bottom line is, if you feel threatened or scared because an ex-boyfriend is stalking you, perhaps you should notify the authorities so that at least the authorities (police, etc.) has this abnormal behavior recorded. You should definitely let other people know about his deviant behavior, just so that someone is informed as well. It is better to be safe than sorry.
That is correct. When a guy has sex with a girl, and breaks up with her, and then is seeing another girl immediately as if the other girl was nothing but a blur in his life, he doesn’t really remember her, especially if there is no communication anymore. If he has a new girlfriend, and he is still communicating with the ex-girlfriend, that is a bad sign too, because he is keeping the ex-girlfriend around via communication, just in case he ends up breaking up with the new girlfriend earlier than he expected. At least then he can hook up with the ex-girlfriend for some action again.
Like I said before, the ex-girlfriend, she’s just a digit or a lay. Unfortunately, he will remember you in times that you girls will find disgusting. Here is an example. When he is with his other guy friends, and they are hanging out, then they get to talking about girls they had sex with, he will remember having sex with that ex-girlfriend, and will describe in physical detail about the sexual intercourse down to the last detail (for example: the type of sexual position, the type of moaning the girl does or does she say “S..t!” or “Oh god!” while they are having sex), and at the same time while he is describing this to his friends, they are all laughing about it as if the ex-girlfriend was just a thing and not a person. I know it sounds really bad, but that is just how it is with guys who are just into having different girlfriends and not settling for just one girlfriend for the long haul.
Always remember this okay, you are not tanga. You are a very smart girl for asking questions. We ask questions to help us be informed, and to see a different perspective on a question. And all people that ask questions are smarter than the ones who doesn’t ask, because they will receive an answer. And it can help them think some more. And that is what makes you even smarter than the non-asking person. Also, remember that bad things happen to all of us, because we are people. There is not one person in this planet that has a perfect life. And always remember this, if nobody did not experience something negative in life, then wouldn’t it be such a boring world, and there is no room for growth or room for change for the better?
The answer to what happens in life is not “move on” all the time. Sometimes the answer is “I don’t know” or something that will leave you with more questions. Why? Because we don’t know what tomorrow will bring. Sometimes the answer is “okay this happened, what can I do so that this will not happen again in the future?” When something happens to us that we are not happy with, we should think of ways for that negative thing not to happen again in our life. We should also learn to grow from the experience, and at the same time, concentrate on the positive things in our lives. What are we doing right, that makes us happy? What can we do more that will make us feel more happier about our lives, and feel better about ourselves? That’s how we should approach answering what happens in our lives.
Thanks for asking your questions, and feel free to drop by anytime. Have a good weekend.
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