Long Distance Relationship with your Barkada/Friends.

[eriinLabbs28]

i've been away with my friends since i moved here sa NJ.. ang hirap sobra! tulad ng sabi nung isang ttalker, iba pa din talaga pag sila kasama mo kasi minsan hinahanap mo yung same level of friendship and bonding sa new friends mo..kaya nga nahihirapan ako makipagfriends ngayon. my barkada in HS has a fs acct kaya minsan dun kami nagcocommunicate pag di kami magkatsempuhan sa YM. sobrang naiinggit nga ko kasi every month nagseset sila ng date para magbonding kahit once a month.. and every time na nakikita ko pics nila naiinggit ako.. pero ganun talaga.. happy naman ako kasi kahit nandito na ko wala namang nagbago sa pakikitungo nila sakin.. ganun pa rin nung umuwi ako.. pero mas naging strong friendship namin..

and yea, sobrang miss ko na sila

tapos yung sa best friends ko naman.. ganun din.. pag may problema ko tinetext ko yung 3 best friends ko tapos magoonline kung sino man ang free or magtetext kung sino man ang may load. swerte ko pag lahat sila free.haha swerte ko with them kasi they really try there best na makausap ako pag i'm in trouble.. and ganun din naman ako sa kanila..


kahit hindi kayo palagi nagkikita at nagkakausap, kung talagang friends kayo, you'll stay friends gang dulo.. it's just a test of friendship.. pero always try to find time to communicate..siyempre kahit alam mong nanjan lang sila palagi for you, it's still nice to know na you never forget each other..

nice naman ng friendship niyo! sana kami din ganyan parin ka in tact kahit magkakalayo na.

good thing talaga may internet at cellphone. best ways of communication talaga. atleast, walang nagbabago kahit na malayo ka sa kanila. good luck sis sa friendship niyo! (;

thank you po pala.

sigh iba naman sakin sis.. ive been sa us na since october 8 month na ako here and yet LAHAT nang friends ko from the philippines ni isa walang natira.. kapag gumgwa ako nang way na makausap sila tru ym ang snsbe lang sakin... wait ah busy ako e..
or kaya i cant chat kasi im drunk... ewan ko.. pero wala nang mas sasama pa sa loob ko.. sobrang worst talaga.. i dont know what hapen.. pero they made me feel depressed.. it was so devastating tapos yung feeling na sobrang kinalimutan ka nalang... what kind of friiends..  dont know what to do naa..

ha? how come naging ganu'n sila sis? biglaan na lang, nagbago? aww. but before ba, nung asa pinas ka pa, okay naman kayo?

aww. 'di bale sis, marami ka pa namang friends dito sa ttalk ee. if ever 'di sila sumagot, kami na lang ang sasagot! diba?

thank you sis, goodluck!

^ nung magkakasama pa kayo ganun na dn ba sila?


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thank you mga sis sa pagdropby at pagshare ng experiences.
yay for you girls!

[^ouYhtiWieD]

actually magiging ganito na barkada namin since iba sa amin graduate na and yung iba nagaaral pa. we always keep in touch through text and group messages.

[urbestie4ever]

Samin naman, muntik na masira yung barkada namin. Kasi yung isa sa amin, lumipat nang Palawan, eh kaaway niya pa yung isa naming kabarkada. Buti nalang, nagkakausap usap pa kami, after one year, nagreunion kami, kya yun, napagbati na sila.

[oo ivy oo]

the best way to combat the loneliness and to keep the closeness would be constant communication. even if you've made new friends (and sometimes, think they're way better than your old ones) remember that your first batch of friends have been with you (and will still even be with you) through good and bad times. the only painful part in LDR with friends is to see them change and the fear of getting separated from them.

[eriinLabbs28]

actually magiging ganito na barkada namin since iba sa amin graduate na and yung iba nagaaral pa. we always keep in touch through text and group messages.

nako, ganun nga din ang ginagawa namin ngayon e.
nagstart na kaming mag-alisan sa place namin.
ngayon, puro GMs, text at FB kami. du'n na lang kami nakakapag-usap. sa graduation pa uli kami magkikita-kita.
after nu'n, wala na niyan.

thank you sis! (;

Samin naman, muntik na masira yung barkada namin. Kasi yung isa sa amin, lumipat nang Palawan, eh kaaway niya pa yung isa naming kabarkada. Buti nalang, nagkakausap usap pa kami, after one year, nagreunion kami, kya yun, napagbati na sila.

buti naman naayos niyo. 'yun nga 'yung kinakatakot ko e, na mag-away-away kami habang malayo. nako, sana never mangyari 'yun!

anyway, thank you sis! (;

the best way to combat the loneliness and to keep the closeness would be constant communication. even if you've made new friends (and sometimes, think they're way better than your old ones) remember that your first batch of friends have been with you (and will still even be with you) through good and bad times. the only painful part in LDR with friends is to see them change and the fear of getting separated from them.

i agree. constant communication would be the best remedy.
nako, i would never forget my highschool friends. we've been through a lot na. kaya, hindi sila basta-bastang makakalimutan. sana, kung may magbago man sa 'min, 'yung friendship ganu'n pa din.

thank you sis! (;

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thanks for sharing your thoughts.
yay for everyone!

[^ouYhtiWieD]

nako, ganun nga din ang ginagawa namin ngayon e.
nagstart na kaming mag-alisan sa place namin.
ngayon, puro GMs, text at FB kami. du'n na lang kami nakakapag-usap. sa graduation pa uli kami magkikita-kita.
after nu'n, wala na niyan.

thank you sis! (;

No problem.
basta importante naman dun keep on touch and don't forget to update them. tapos syempre reunion.

[pink_chiklet78]

mahirap nga pag nagkalayolayo na ang barkada/friends.. naeexperience ko yan kasi ngayong college, iba-iba na kami ng university. magkakalayo na talaga.

ang ginagawa namin ng mga classmates ko nung 4th yr, meron kaming "<insert our section's name here> day" or gm day kungsaan nagji-gm kami ng mga updates sa buhay namin. every month yun. kaya updated kami..

kami naman ng bestfriend ko nagkikita kami pag uuwi sya dito sa hometown niya. nagmmall kami.. bestfriend date. &tawagan din..

constant communication is the key.

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[bittersweet cupcake]

me and my very best friend split up during grade 4. she migrated to Canada. I cried for weeks. i didn't have any connections with her till grade 6. turns out she saw my friendster and my e-mail there. we still chat and sometimes sends her letters. but because of her migration, i never knew much about her. we were young then. i'm already an incoming third year next year. i found out that she had a boyfriend when i was in grade 6. it was sad since we don;t open up that much. she has her own best friends and so do i. but still. i'm missing her to bits.

[sweet_l0ve]

ngayong magco-college na, maghihiwa-hiwalay na din kaming magbabarkada .may magma-migrate tapos iba-iba pa ung universities na papasukan namin. may magkakasama pa din naman pero magkaibang course na.

ngayong summer, parati na kaming lumalabas para mag-bond. at nag-promise kami sa isa't isa na magiging updated pa rin kami sa mga happenings at di mawawalan ng communication sa isa't isa.

[smitten]

Hmm there is always YM and email/skype

[xxjamimixx]

hayz. Miss ko na friends ko. Umalis na sila eh. Nagibang bansa. Di ako nakapag goodbye ng maayos. Grabe. Guilty talaga ako. Currently, after 2 years, guilty pa din ako. How I wish I could go back in time.

[jmickey]

Mahirap nga kapag ganito yun situation. Example samin ng HS friends ko, simula nung nagcollege kami madalang na kami magkasamasama dahil sa iba ibang sched and yung iba may other friends na din. Kahit ganun, ok lang kasi dun mo talaga malalaman kung sino mga true friends mo db

[sweet.sacrifice29]

^ Oo nga ang hirap pero buti nga sa inyo, nasa the same school kayo.

Best Friend ko naman, di na nga kami magkasama sa school, super layo pa nila. Nagchachat nalang kami sa YM at nagcocomment sa FS namin para feel parin namin na hindi kami nagkakalayo.

[xai`o14]

I find it hard to deal with Really. Most of my friends back in HS (sjc cavite) i have lost contacts with. aside from we're not in the same school anymore, we've also got a NEW CIRCLE OF FRIENDS & we're more busy in our studies now. but i want them to know that ILL NEVER FORGET those memories we've all shared! And i'm looking forward to see yall faces again. LOVEYOUU ALL LOADSSS..  PLEASE KEEP IN TOUCH!

[princessarah]

long distance tlaga.gus2 Q na nga umuwi eh,
iba tlaga ang pinas. pti friends Q, kakaiba..

its so hard to be separated with ur friend,
knowing that the fact that ull meet a lot of people but no one cud be like them:(