naranasan niyo na ba yung feeling mo,wala kang friends?

[gceannerainbow16]

so many random times but I'm getting used to it since people come and go so just need to live life  and enjoy it. I've had my share of this kind of drama as of now I'm welcoming new people to my life haha!

[dollifiedprincess]

There are times na ganito yung nararamdaman ko. Yung wala akong matakbuhan. Wala akong mapagtanungan. Walang makasama. Buti na lang okay na ngayon. Hindi ko na nararamdaman yun. At sana hindi na talaga.

[vampiredoll]

Tulad ngayon? haha. Lahat sila walang pera. Di man lang ako puntahan sa bahay.

[idiosyncratimae]

Oo, lalo na nung elementary Kasi bina-backstab na ako ng friends ko nun tapos heto ako, parang desperado sa kanila. May time pa nga na pinapagkalat nila na cheating ako while exam at ang mga reviewers ko daw ay yung mismong exam. And it hurt me a lot na kung sino pa yung kaibigan ko, sila pa nagsasabi nun. Isipin niyo, ever since kindergarten/Grade 1 kasama ko na sila tapos bigla silang ganun, ang sakit, sobra.  Kaya lumipat ako nung high school.

3rd year na ako ngayon pero ni isang sorry wala akong narinig sa kanila. Though, parang kung umakto sila walang nangyari. I don't like them but I don't hate them. Still, I've moved on and I've forgiven them long ago.

[Nikki.]

Yeah. Lol. Yung feeling na kapag tinignan ko phone ko tas iniisip ko kanino ko sasabihin problema ko... Wala. Wala akong masabihan. Kaya nga parang ang loner ng dating ko sa school eh. Makikita nyo ako minsan, mag isa lang, nakatulala or something. Tas yung mga kasama ko, may sari sarili nang mundo. Habang patagal ng patagal, nalalaman ko na kung sino talaga mga tunay na kaibigan ko. Pero minsan kahit sila, they're not always there for me like I am there for them sometimes... I dunno. I guess I'll just have to live with it.

[RadiateAriana]

Yup, pag first day! ahaha. Kasi mahirap minsan maki-sama diba? lalo na kapag dati nang magkakakilala yung lalapitan mo. Pero ako naranasan ko yan Nawala lahat ng friends ko kasi may iba na silang kasama. Tapos ako forever alone. =))

Pero saglit lang yun. after nun madami na din lumapit sakin kaya ok lang haha!

[alvis]

^ tama.. pag first day sa bagong environment. hehe na-experience ko yan dati sa new work ko. pag lunch wala akong kasama kumain. so mag-isa ako pumunta dun sa the sandwich guy near the office. ngayon kahit na i have friends na sa office, dun parin ang tambayan ko. hehe! the food is good too!

[iceprincess0017]

i felt like this back when i was 1st year high school. during the first 3 months i still had friends to hang out with. then i had a boyfriend and apparently my "friends" liked the guy too. like 2 of them. and i found out about their feelings when the guy and i started to get together so we all ended up having a fight. then when we broke up they didn't even bother to ask if i'm okay, if i'm handling everything well. just nothing. i had other bunch of friends to talk to before but they're all 2nd year high school back then so basically i didn't have friends on my year level. that was, what i would say the really messed up times of my life.

[vanillakissed]

Most of the time, yes. But now that it's junior year, i've learned that friends come and go. Meron namang mga constants, but you don't have you hang out with them daily. If you get a best friend, you'll break up later for some reason or another. Ganyan talaga ang life eh. You just have to learn to accept it to be happy. 

[wainnagahnduh]

Most of the time, yes. But now that it's junior year, i've learned that friends come and go. Meron namang mga constants, but you don't have you hang out with them daily. If you get a best friend, you'll break up later for some reason or another. Ganyan talaga ang life eh. You just have to learn to accept it to be happy. 

Yeah. I agree. Minsan talaga normal lang na maramdaman mo na wala kang friend, but it's not your fault so don't blame yourself. And besides di mo rin kasi masasabi, life is short pero andami dami nating taong nakakahalubilo and sometimes kung sino pa yung di mo ka-close sila pala yung tunay na kaibigan, iba-iba rin kasi. And this was based on experience, minsan di maiwasang mabalewala ka ng mga kaibigan mo, and that doesnt mean eh hindi ka na mahalaga, marami minsang dahilan sa likod ng disappointments na binibigay sa tin ng mga friends naten, but it's okay, siguro wag na lang masyadong maging attached para di masyadong nkakadismaya

[Heartlesz27]

facing that dilemma right now. ive been here in the US for like 2years and i still feel like i dont have any friends. although i have some friends from church and work but i dont consider them as my REAL friends. iba pa rin kasi mga friends ko sa Pinas.

[maryangga]

nung nagkaboyfriend ako, feeling ko nawalan ako ng kaibigan, kasi lahat daw ng atensyon ko nakay Bf na. dumating ung point na, pag magkaaway kami ni BF wala akong matakbuhan kasi nahihiya ako lumapit saknla kasi baka sabihin nila, pag kailangan mo lang kami saka mo kami hahanapin. oo nga mali ako dun. tsk

[DeadManWriting]

yeah. elementary days. oooh. such a loner 

[DrizzleDays;]

Yup. During my senior year.
A rumor spread behind my back about something personal. This rumor was partially true, but the part that was wrong was what cost me my reputation. People looked at me differently, and I couldn't do anything anymore. -.-

[mica_bee]

Naranasan ko to nung second year college palang ako. Meron akong best friend for more than 8 years, we had the same classes together and I just got tired of her.  There were times where she'd get jealous of my exam scores na hindi nya ko iinvite sa study groups with OUR FRIENDS.  One time we had an extra credit opportunity, she didnt even bother inviting me because mas mataas daw yung score ko sa kanila. 

My point is, FRIENDS SUPPORT EACH OTHER, NOT COMPETE WITH EACH OTHER.  If you're competing with your best friend or your friends, YOU ARE NOT A TRUE FRIEND.

Tapos gaya gaya pa. Lahat ng gusto ko gusto din nya. Kaya I distanced myself from her and our other friends because I dont wanna deal with her or their competitiveness.