'Gaya-gaya' Friend

[lolers]

How to deal? :\

[prinsesang_basahan]

what do you mean by "gaya-gaya?" sa fashion?sa pananalita? well kung ganun, ok lang pero kapag sobra na, na halos buong pgkatao mo e ginagaya syempre nakaka irita na din, so kelangan kausapin yung "friend" na yun kasi hinde na "flattering" pa yung pang-gagaya..tsaka syempre ayaw mo din naman na ma-remember siya ng tao na "manggagaya".

[me_l0veu]

Wala siyang originality? Hayaan mo na lang, at least, model ka sa kanya. Hehe. Then dahan-dahan mo siyang turuan what mas bagay sa kanya na mga clothes, etc. Para di ba, hindi na siya gumaya.

[posh26]

ay nako. its happening to me ayt now.
haha. alam mo ung nakita nya ako magsuot ng palda, nilabas nya
mga palda sa cabinet nya. araw araw nakapalda.
tapos mga hairband ko, she would buy the same designs talaga.
pati lip gloss, nagpabili sya sa mama nya.
ung katulad ng akin!!
tapos nun, ung mga expressions ko.
gaya na din.
tapos ung tawa ko na harhar nat hurhur.
sinasabi na din nya.
tapos before ang fav color nya is blue. ngayon, pink na din.
pati ung mga html codes ko na pinang comment sa friendster,
ginaya nya na din.
amp!!
akalain mo eto pa ha, nagtake sya ng pics kasama ung stuffed
toy na binigay sakin ni boyfie.
aba, un ang primary photo nya sa fs!!!
  kairita to the max.

[katrine_kaz]

I hate gaya-gaya people, especially if friends mo pa. it gets in my nerve
ayoko yung ginagaya character ko, we all have originality so don't pirate from other people. kinaiinisan ko din yung ginagaya things ko just to get along with me. di naman kelangan same kayo to be friends, right?

if sobra na, just confront her and said it in a nice way. para naman di sya ma-offend

[pinksweetie21]

haii sis. :| unfortunately, we have the same problem. but i am telling you don't make it aa biggie, coz it will make you a loo-ohh-seer! huh? ü just don't mind her/them. they're just born to be irritating and eeky- at the same time. whew. just make it a point or put this on your head, that you are their IDOL. it made feel better. :]] so there, DON'T MIND THEM!! we know right? ü

[BlaChain5821]

cant understand??
panu??

like??
ginagaya ka sa lahat ng ginagawa mo??
ung habits?
fashion?

[msxiomai]

haha.. I think it's so flattering..
remember, imitation is the best form of compliment.

kasi kapag ginagaya niya ako, meaning, ako ang role model nia.. *lol, laki ulo!*

[^^miles^^]

this happened to me once.
i bought an abercrombie shirt and she liked it.
i bought a plain black and plain light brown.

my friend asked where i got it and the next thing i know,
she was already wearing it!!
and she bought yellow, which was near my light brown!

i was so pissed off that i told her right away.

[passerby]

^

She just bought the same thing you did once and you got pissed?

[yAmMi3]

it depends naman siguro kung pano ka niya ginagaya diba.. if it comes to the point na halos ur whole personality is being copied, then that's unacceptable.. this kinda happened to me na before pero i just let it pass.. especially kasi nakiki hang out lang xa samin ng friends ko.. it was obvious naman na ginagaya lang niya koh so naging laughing stock lang xa for other people who knew me.. but sometimes it's not their fault.. some people actually think that the best way to fit in is to become the same as the person that they think has the most friends.. baka naiingit lang sau or something..

[^^miles^^]

^

She just bought the same thing you did once and you got pissed?

it was exactly the same shirt, with almost the same color.
don't you think it'll be weird if wore it at the same time accidentally?
i was pissed kasi i wont be able to wear it na without telling her not to wear it.
and she does it all the time, not to me,
but to other friends.

but we didn't bother talking about it na after i told her why i got pissed.

[sweetie*jeth]

nako. meron akong friend na ganito.
naloloka ko sa kanya.

[thoniegirl18]

gaya-gaya?
ayus lang naman, pero wag namang sobra.
nakakairita na yung ganun.

[keouie]

OMG. My bestfriend had a friend who was like that when she went to the States. As in everything! At first my bestfriend was not that bothered kasi she's patient. It started with her flipflops, her clips, her notebook... but it got worst.. she tried to mimick her friendster profile, commenting on her hs friends as well as how my friend does, makes the exactly same profile theme except the colors, suddenly has the same number of guys in her featured friends list, AND bought the same laptop, (and even pleaded her mom to buy her the exact same car my friend's got!) talk about creepy!

Now can someone NOT get pissed right? It's like "hey dude, give me some breathing space okay?". but then again this was an extreme case.

Anyhows, I this is what I've told my friend "Wow! Idol ka niya, be proud, but try talking to her" Communication is always a key. I told her, that copy cat can possibly be a psycho so best not aggravate someone like that. And I don't think I've helped? Haha.