All about: Being backstabbed by your friends

[Day day]

I've experienced backstabbing too when I was in 1st year high school. I met this one friend and we became close in a while then I found out na she was talkin sh...t about me behind my back. Nalaman ko na lang nung sinabi sa'kin ng classmate ko.  grabe talaga yun, I didn't know what to do about it. Then one time she approached me like nothing just happened. Siguro kasi she isn't aware na alam ko na. fck, grabe talaga, hindi ko alam kung pano sya nakakaganun sa'kin then saying bad things when she's not with me. Then one time, I talked to her about it.I told her that my classmate said she was saying bad things about me. Di ko lang alam ah, but when I was talking to her she's not saying anything and she's not even looking through my eyes then out of nowhere she runned off me. Then after that wala na, di na namin na-settle yung nangyari. Ok lang naman sa'kin I'm happy that a person like that is out of my system since then. 

[samson]

yes, bestfriend ko pa siya. but now, she's not special to me just an ordinary friend.

[imyourangel]

I've experienced backstabbing too when I was in 1st year high school. I met this one friend and we became close in a while then I found out na she was talkin sh...t about me behind my back. Nalaman ko na lang nung sinabi sa'kin ng classmate ko.  grabe talaga yun, I didn't know what to do about it. Then one time she approached me like nothing just happened. Siguro kasi she isn't aware na alam ko na. fck, grabe talaga, hindi ko alam kung pano sya nakakaganun sa'kin then saying bad things when she's not with me. Then one time, I talked to her about it.I told her that my classmate said she was saying bad things about me. Di ko lang alam ah, but when I was talking to her she's not saying anything and she's not even looking through my eyes then out of nowhere she runned off me. Then after that wala na, di na namin na-settle yung nangyari. Ok lang naman sa'kin I'm happy that a person like that is out of my system since then. 

Sounds like she has some kind of a personality problem. Lol. Same here, im glad na din na yung isang taong naconsider kong true friend nawala na sa buhay ko. 

[yikeeyine15]

salamat po sa gumawa nito. at least masasabi ko lahat ng mga hinanakit ko sa a.k.a "sister" ko dati. kasi naman kapag nakaharap ako, lahat na ng magagandang salita na pwedeng marinig, maririnig mo na sa bibig niya. pero ang hindi ko alam, kung ano-ano sinasabi niya sa akin na masama. and ang masakit pa dun, wala naman akong ginagawa sa kanya. and masama ba na sabihin ko sa kanya na nagbago na siya kasi sobrang hindi na siya yung katulad ng dati. sobrang sakit nun. and kapag binabalikan ko yung mga moments na yun, parang sinasabi ko narin sa sarili ko na baliw na talaga ko.
Even though were in the same school right now, I dont think na magkakabati kami. I dont care na sa kanya ngayon. and hindi na ko mangingialam kung ano mang mangyari sa kanya. siguro irerespect ko nalang siya bilang tao and bilang schoolmate. hindi na bilang bestfriend,"sister",friend, or whatever. feeling ko hindi siya makakahanap ng katulad ko na sasalo ng mga problems niya w/ his bf. harhar... [hahaha]  XD

[meh mine]

Yep, naranasan ko na din yan. Being talked by a friend behind your back is something people don't want to believe, especially kung close mo yung friend na yun and all of a sudden, they're talking things about you behind your back. Ok lang sana kung puro positive yun! LOL but anyway ang sakit talaga.

But oh well, you have just got to deal with it. If they're talking about you behind your back, might as well give them something to talk about! hehe..

[pink_choco]

backstabbers are bored with their lame lives most of the time, backstabbers are gossipers. they are either insecure or haters. tsk.tsk. 

[jasminlim]

i do have. it's all about my ex and a friend. the story all happened when the girl texted my guy that I didn't loved him.. she'll never know how i loved the guy. with brows raised up, i texted the girl and confronted her about all that. but she denied all the things happening right in front of my very eyes. i can't accept it 'coz i know that she had a very big admiration to my guy and dealing with all of this just to loosen our tight relationship. but now, i had moved on and forgave her all the way. but the trust won't come back anymore.

[poshiepink]

Nakakainis yung mga ganyan. Kala mo ang babait pag kaharap pero ang galing magsalita sa likod. tsk. Ang pathetic. Tas minsan, nakita ko silang nagbubulungan pero alam nila na alam ko na ako yung pinag uusapan. At isa pa, wala naman akong ginagawang masama. instead, i'm always trying to be nice to them. Ewan ko ba. Palibhasa, wala ng ginawa sa buhay kundi mamlastik at manira ng kapwa.

[pinky_twinkee]

nangyari na rin sa akin to..pero hindi ko naman siya masisisi kasi kung tutuusin ako ang unang nag backstabbed, pero ang kinasasama lang ng loob ko nung nakausap ko siya humingi ako ng sorry and everything.. siya na mismo nagsabi na tama lang naman ginawa ko kaya hindi siya galit sa akin tampo oo pero hindi siya galit..then sinabi niya na ang bait ng pagkakilala niya sa akin ang sabi ko lang wag niya akong ijugde agad dahil lang sa nangyari sa amin.. sabi niya hindi niya ako ni jujudge at never daw niyang gagawin sa akin yun.. halos 1 month din hindi kami nag usap, then one time bigla na lang siyang sumulpot namimiss na daw niya ako ganyan ganun.. sana daw mabalik namin friendship namin, sabi ko sure kasi ako naman may kasalanan sa naging gap namin..!! edi ayos na lahat..

after ilang days ng maging ok kami nakachat ko yung GF ng kuya niya.. then nalaman ko na kung anu ano na pala sinasabi niya sa akin.. na kesyo panget daw kasi ako kaya nagpapakaloyal ako sa bf ko kasi daw wala na daw papatol pa sa aking iba.. at nalaman ko din na yung friend ko na pala yun ang nakachat ko na sinasabing inggit lang ako sa kanila ng bf niya kaya ginawa ko yun.,. parang sobrang nakakainis lang kasi akala ko ok na.. pero may ganoong factor pa din pala..

[jamie_mc88]

well ako, wala pa akong naririnig na nag babackstabb sa akin.
pero meron nang nagsabi na ganyan daw.
totoo naman. kaya nahurt din ako. haha! kaya i tried to change it for the better. ayoko kasing masabihan ng kung ano ano.
mas gusto ko pang prangkahin nila ako.

[crazy_cutie11]

salamat po sa gumawa nito. at least masasabi ko lahat ng mga hinanakit ko sa a.k.a "sister" ko dati. kasi naman kapag nakaharap ako, lahat na ng magagandang salita na pwedeng marinig, maririnig mo na sa bibig niya. pero ang hindi ko alam, kung ano-ano sinasabi niya sa akin na masama. and ang masakit pa dun, wala naman akong ginagawa sa kanya. and masama ba na sabihin ko sa kanya na nagbago na siya kasi sobrang hindi na siya yung katulad ng dati. sobrang sakit nun. and kapag binabalikan ko yung mga moments na yun, parang sinasabi ko narin sa sarili ko na baliw na talaga ko.
Even though were in the same school right now, I dont think na magkakabati kami. I dont care na sa kanya ngayon. and hindi na ko mangingialam kung ano mang mangyari sa kanya. siguro irerespect ko nalang siya bilang tao and bilang schoolmate. hindi na bilang bestfriend,"sister",friend, or whatever. feeling ko hindi siya makakahanap ng katulad ko na sasalo ng mga problems niya w/ his bf. harhar... [hahaha]  XD

Aww. You're welcome.

Lahat ata tayo nakaexperience na nito.
Bat ganun? Pwede namang sabihin sa harap natin.

[saiieo12]

Ive experience also being backstabbed by those people.
But I dont mind them. Because I believe that If your affected or you reacted to those people what they said it means its true. So heads up girl.

[darlenepink]

Nangyari na rin sakin yan..yung my so-called bestfriend binackstabbed niya ako sa isa ko pang friend para magalit sakin.. after few days nagalit rin yung dati kung friend sa kanya..tapos binigyan niya ako ng sorry letter para friends ulit kami (naiba yata ang ihip ng hangin)...nakakainis siya...napakaplastik niya pala..sobra kunyari mabait, kapag kausap ko mahilig magyabang.,Yung nag-sorry siya parang pinapaalam niya sa iba na sincere siya pero parang hindi naman...siyempre alam ko rin kaya siya nagso-sorry dahil wala na siyang friend, alam ko din na kung hindi sila nagkagalit ng dati kong friend patuloy ang paninira niya sa akin at hindi siya magso-sorry (kaya ngayon galit na galit ako sa kanya)

[im_numb10]

super sakit sa una lalo na if it's far far from your expecations

...ako nung una kong nalaman ilang araw ko iniyakan worst is kasama pa dun yung bestfirend ko for 6 years na na influence ng mga mean girls na akala ko friends ko.. and hangang ngayon ganun pa din sila

[nicarmz]

let me share to you my worst encounter with my so-called 'friends'...
we were once eating lunch when suddenly one of my 'friend' (they were actually two who made me crazy!) burst out how he hates this 'someone' which was my boyfriend!
i was already boiling that moment but i still managed not to say a word...
and they actually continued talking about how awful i am, the way i act so rude..everything wrong about ME, in my front...
which made me lose my appetite...
and because i am used to praying before and after meals, i hit one of my friend's conscience and ended up forgiving them...
they are still my friends but i just can't put it off my mind...
it's just that we've been friends for about 8 or 9 years, and it's just like..
duhh!!!