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All about: Being backstabbed by your friends
« on: April 10, 2008, 10:43:39 am »
hmm..have you? share ur story here..how ur bestfriend..or at least you thought was ur bestfriend..did something sooooo bad to you that ruined ur friendship?? damayan tayo mga sis!
« Last Edit: June 07, 2008, 01:00:34 pm by x-y »
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i think no one is spared in that hurtful truth... being backstabbed... even the most likeable person can't escape being the talk of his/her friends... it's up to you to accept it or stand for yourself... it hurts to know they're like that, being so nice and all. only to find out it's all false pretense... :'(



 

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yes i have... when i was in 1st year highschool... my "so called friend" gets angry at me everytime i'm talking to her crushes... she thinks na i'm flirting with those guys she crushes on... how annoying talaga... plus the worst thing i found out from other persons about her... gusto niyang agawin boyfriend ko sakin... di ko lang alam... that's how she backstabbed me... because she also likes my boyfriend... how annoying...
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yeah...some of my classmates really laugh at my jokes and they seem really interested but when i was hiding and trying to surprise them, i heard there voices saying, "yeah g***** is so corny....her jokes are oh not so fun.....i just laugh so that she won't noticed that I'm plastic on her" after that, i never went with them.... :-[
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i think no one is spared in that hurtful truth... being backstabbed... even the most likeable person can't escape being the talk of his/her friends... it's up to you to accept it or stand for yourself... it hurts to know they're like that, being so nice and all. only to find out it's all false pretense... :'(



 

yeah. it really hurts. you think they love you so much..tapos pag nakatalikod ka na kung ano ano na pala yung sinasabi about you..oh man. life is so complicated talaga.

yes i have... when i was in 1st year highschool... my "so called friend" gets angry at me everytime i'm talking to her crushes... she thinks na i'm flirting with those guys she crushes on... how annoying talaga... plus the worst thing i found out from other persons about her... gusto niyang agawin boyfriend ko sakin... di ko lang alam... that's how she backstabbed me... because she also likes my boyfriend... how annoying...

kumusta naman yun..ikaw, kinakausap mo lang crush nia, which is totally normal and harmless. tapos aagawan ka pa nia ng boyfriend?! aba! sumosobra xa. very bad.

yeah...some of my classmates really laugh at my jokes and they seem really interested but when i was hiding and trying to surprise them, i heard there voices saying, "yeah g***** is so corny....her jokes are oh not so fun.....i just laugh so that she won't noticed that I'm plastic on her" after that, i never went with them.... :-[

plastic people really suck. sorry for the term, is it bad ba?? okay. wag na lang yun. plastics are really mean. they're so bad. they keep on pretending. why doin't they show their real personalities instead of fooling everyone?!
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yes. nung grade seven ako  >:(  ;D nakakainis pag naalala ko. we were close before, then napansin ko na she flirts with my crushies in front of me. and pag nakikipag flirt siya titingin pa siya sakin and ngingiti na parang iniinggit niya ko or something. then diniditch niya for her boyfie that time. and oh! she told my crushie na i like him! and nagkakagusto din siya sa lahat ng crushie ko.  >:( hmff nakakainis siya. ayan loner na tuloy siya ngayon. puro boys kasama. madaming may ayaw sa kanya. hayyy.

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yes. nung grade seven ako  >:(  ;D nakakainis pag naalala ko. we were close before, then napansin ko na she flirts with my crushies in front of me. and pag nakikipag flirt siya titingin pa siya sakin and ngingiti na parang iniinggit niya ko or something. then diniditch niya for her boyfie that time. and oh! she told my crushie na i like him! and nagkakagusto din siya sa lahat ng crushie ko.  >:( hmff nakakainis siya. ayan loner na tuloy siya ngayon. puro boys kasama. madaming may ayaw sa kanya. hayyy.

tsk. yun ang napapala ng mga katulad nia. she did wrong things intentionally. buti pa yung mga ignorante. kahit makagawa sila ng mali, at least d nila alam na mali yun.

alam mo sis, naiinggit lang yan sayo kaya nya un nagawa. :)
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hi..

i was in my high school days when my so called bestfriend did this to me

i hate her for telling my secret to our other friend,..

i warned her not to tell it, because this might be a cause of our misunderstanding towards our friends..

well....
as it turned out..
she did it neatly...

i hate her for that..
up to now i can't have a good relationship with her,,
i can't trust her anymore...

and never will be.....

she just end our friendship with that...

she didn't even apologize for doing such act,,,
i don't need her in my life...

i built a friendship with her...
but a mild blew of wind made my wall collapsed...

maybe she wasn't worth my time ,  my respect and my so called friendship...
 

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A certain teacher that told us backstabbing is normal. So, yeah. :)

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tsk tsk! my so called bestfriend. andami niya ginawang rumors about me na hindi ko naman talaga sinabi. gumagawa siya ng kwento. ayun,nalaman ko na siya pala ang ngakakalat.

reason daw niya: inggit siya sa akin kasi i get what i want daw..

sayang lang ang 4 yrs. of friendship namin..

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Re: have u ever been stabbed in the back by one of ur 'so called-friends'?
« Reply #10 on: April 11, 2008, 10:13:45 pm »
i have this so called friend of mine making false rumors about me and my bestfriends. it really made me so irritated and I yell at her in front of other people. it embarrassed me too but i felt more sorry for her so i'm the first one who say sorry and then she's sorry too and promise me that she'll never do it again..so were already friends again.. one day she introduce me to her friend nicko (not his real name), we've been very close as lovers..Oh man this is the saddest part... I found out one day that they are REAL lovers and she didn't have the plan to tell me on what's happening until i'm so confuse, i didn't want to hear any more explanations from him or her. I text her that how could she'd done this to me, all the trust i gave to her came to nothing. Then she text me that "di naman masama umibig eh" then I replied " ndi nga pero nasa lugar ba yung pag ibig mo sa kanya"?..Then she didn't reply anymore.

 

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Re: have u ever been stabbed in the back by one of ur 'so called-friends'?
« Reply #11 on: April 12, 2008, 12:43:33 am »
We've been BFFs since third grade. Ewan ko ba, kung bakit s'ya gano'n. Everytime na I'll get praised for something I deserve to get praised for, she'll just be mad and not talk to me. Inggit? Yeah, lagi. Its so weird na ako naman lumalapit sakanya and make an effort to make things better. Super backstabber and sobrang babaw n'ya talaga. She said sorry so many times and has promised always, na she'll improve and change her ways, but I always forgive her since I love her. In sixth grade, my `kada didn't like her so much, well, especially me, so we didn't talk to her for days, kaya naging loner s'ya, nun... may mga kasama naman s'yang iba pero iba kasi dahil hindi `yung mga friends n'ya kasama n'ya. At `di naman `yung total deadmahan drama, nag-uusap pa naman kami-kami at s'ya pero as classmates lang. `Di ko kasalanan `yun kasi choice rin naman ng `kada ko ang umiwas sa kanya. Then she started this nasty rumor that really made me look bad but isn't really true and she started saying mean things about me to everyone, exposing my secrets at siniraan ako (walang katotohanan) sa mga friends ko. Kaya ako naman ang nalagay sa place n'ya, sad to say na nabola n'ya `kada ko for the lame pathetic reason she wants to get back at me. Nung graduation, nagkaayos na kami. Pero nagtransfer na'ko sa ibang school nun, exclusive naman... here she goes again. Pati ba naman ngayon?! Basta ang haba, pero sobra na s'ya, feels like her world revolves on planning and doing mean stuff to get me down. Ako naman, forgive ng forgive. Pero ngayon, she wants to start all over again (nakailang beses na kami nagstartover since last June 2007, 10x na ata, eh). Total waste of time lang s'ya, `wag na, no! Good thing we study at different schools na.

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Re: have u ever been stabbed in the back by one of ur 'so called-friends'?
« Reply #12 on: April 12, 2008, 12:54:14 pm »
Yeah. I didn't expect that they'll do that. Ok lang naman sa akin na magalit sila sa akin, pero sana kung may problema hindi na nilalabas pa di ba? Pwede naman kasi pag-usapan yun, pero sila mismo yung nagpapalaki nung issue. Nakakapikon eh. Pasalamat sila na kahit ginawa nila sa akin yun, may respeto pa naman ako kahit paano sa kanila.
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Re: have u ever been stabbed in the back by one of ur 'so called-friends'?
« Reply #13 on: April 12, 2008, 03:46:27 pm »
Hmm. Meron akong bestfriends. Pero nasira yung friendship namin nung isang girl bestfriend ko..

Ganito kasi, nalaman ng barkada namin na hindi totoo yung mga sinasabi nya about herself.. Like may banda daw sya and guitarist daw sya pero nung pinagplay namin sya ng guitar e hindi sya marunong.. Tapos d nya daw alam name ng vocalist nila kasi iba-iba daw yung vocalist ng band nya.. Tapos wala syang maipakilala samin na band member nya.. Basta madami pang iba, we really confirmed it, just to be sure na hindi namin sya najujudge ng mali.. We even talked to her roommates na barkada nya din, d daw totoo yung mga kwento nyang ganun..

So ang ginawa namin, d na lang namin pinapansin pag nagkkwento sya ng ganun, para d sya matolerate magkwento ng hindi totoo.. Kahit na ganun yung ginawa namin, napuno na rin kami kasi tuloy-tuloy pa rin sya magkwento ng mga hindi totoo, so tinanong na namin sya and ok na samin basta aminin nya lang na d totoo yung mga kwento nya.. Grabe d pa rin sya umamin.. Hanggang sa away na.. Ayun. I was hurt kasi ako lang yung bestfriend nya sa barkada tapos d ko pa pala sya ganun kakilala.. Ayun, hindi na kami friends ngayon.. Before, galit ako sa kanya, pero now, hindi na.. Hindi na lang kami nagpapansinan..
« Last Edit: April 12, 2008, 03:48:55 pm by _bhaby8_ »
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Re: have u ever been stabbed in the back by one of ur 'so called-friends'?
« Reply #14 on: April 12, 2008, 04:41:53 pm »
i guess i have been. and it's not really nice to feel that way. but everyone's probably gone through that and you learn something from it...

 

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