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Re: Things You Don't Understand With Guys..
« Reply #2235 on: January 01, 2012, 02:44:04 pm »
Bakit may mga guys na flirt? What's the point of flirting?? i really don't get it. i hope somebody would answer this... :(
care to elaborate with a situation? do you mean general flirting? if so, both genders do it. Just because they may already be spoken for, doesnt mean they cant have a little fun! The moment you put a guy on a leash, the more severe the consequences are going to  happen.
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Re: Things You Don't Understand With Guys..
« Reply #2236 on: January 01, 2012, 10:38:36 pm »
bat my mga guys dinedeny yung gf nila?like may friend ako, bglang mg text tas yung ending, sinasabihan ako hanapin ko sya ng chicks. tas sinabihan ko baka magalit yung gf nya. palagi nya dinedeny na wla syang gf.pero nkita ko sa fb nya na meron,but wla clang picture sa albums nya. meron tagged lg, at dalawa pa. hahah.. ;D . lol

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Re: Things You Don't Understand With Guys..
« Reply #2237 on: January 01, 2012, 11:21:22 pm »
bat my mga guys dinedeny yung gf nila?like may friend ako, bglang mg text tas yung ending, sinasabihan ako hanapin ko sya ng chicks. tas sinabihan ko baka magalit yung gf nya. palagi nya dinedeny na wla syang gf.pero nkita ko sa fb nya na meron,but wla clang picture sa albums nya. meron tagged lg, at dalawa pa. hahah.. ;D . lol

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Re: Things You Don't Understand With Guys..
« Reply #2238 on: January 01, 2012, 11:26:49 pm »
hahah.natawa nga ako dun..maganda naman yung gf nya infairness.eto ngayon kinukulit naman ako hanapan sya. LOL! lalaki nga talaga.d makuntento..ahahaha

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Re: Things You Don't Understand With Guys..
« Reply #2239 on: January 02, 2012, 12:16:44 pm »
care to elaborate with a situation? do you mean general flirting? if so, both genders do it. Just because they may already be spoken for, doesnt mean they cant have a little fun! The moment you put a guy on a leash, the more severe the consequences are going to  happen.

ok, thanks so much for the answer. :) pero anong "fun" dun? hindi ba waste of time lang yun? unless wala silang ginagawa sa life... right? and what would be the consequences, if ever? :) just curious... :)

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Re: Things You Don't Understand With Guys..
« Reply #2240 on: January 02, 2012, 12:55:16 pm »
ok, thanks so much for the answer. :) pero anong "fun" dun? hindi ba waste of time lang yun? unless wala silang ginagawa sa life... right? and what would be the consequences, if ever? :) just curious... :)

Flirting is not a real waste of time. It can be a breath of fresh air to break the monotony of everyday life and interact with other people, especially of the opposite sex. During a conversation, it also forces you to think of a crafty response on the spot. Being spontaneous, witty and an interesting individual is a very difficult balance to achieve.

Lets say you forbid your boyfriend to flirt, that is an easy indication that you do not have enough trust in him to know the limits. Forget the stereotype of bar-style flirting. I think its safe to assume that most, if not all women know guys only go to bars for two things, to get drunk or find some random chick to get laid. People flirt in most places and sometimes they are not even aware of it.

As far as consequences, do you honestly think that forbidding something for your boyfriend will actually stop it? It will actually encourage it. Look at it this way, look back at anything that your parents have forbidden you to do, have you ever always followed the rules? I think everyone here bent those rules at least once, so the more you make a huge deal out of it, the more he'll do it and he'll be harder to catch each time. Just trust in the person enough that he knows his boundaries. It is the wisest thing to do. 
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Re: Things You Don't Understand With Guys..
« Reply #2241 on: January 02, 2012, 05:43:29 pm »
Flirting is not a real waste of time. It can be a breath of fresh air to break the monotony of everyday life and interact with other people, especially of the opposite sex. During a conversation, it also forces you to think of a crafty response on the spot. Being spontaneous, witty and an interesting individual is a very difficult balance to achieve.

Lets say you forbid your boyfriend to flirt, that is an easy indication that you do not have enough trust in him to know the limits. Forget the stereotype of bar-style flirting. I think its safe to assume that most, if not all women know guys only go to bars for two things, to get drunk or find some random chick to get laid. People flirt in most places and sometimes they are not even aware of it.

As far as consequences, do you honestly think that forbidding something for your boyfriend will actually stop it? It will actually encourage it. Look at it this way, look back at anything that your parents have forbidden you to do, have you ever always followed the rules? I think everyone here bent those rules at least once, so the more you make a huge deal out of it, the more he'll do it and he'll be harder to catch each time. Just trust in the person enough that he knows his boundaries. It is the wisest thing to do. 

wow, ok, thanks for the lengthy answer :)) it's not my boyfriend or anyone. random lang tanong ko :) anyway, super thanks po talaga :) i'm sooo much enlightened :)

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Re: Things You Don't Understand With Guys..
« Reply #2242 on: January 03, 2012, 01:24:24 pm »
Bakit kapag gumagawa ka na ng way para baguhin yung ayaw niya sayo, sasabihin pa niyang bitter ka? like for example, nag-away kayo kasi ayaw niya na matanong yung girl, or he doesn't want to be dictated on what he is suppose to do or to just give opinions, but when you does, when you let him do what he wanted to and you'll just say "cge ikaw n bhla kung ano gusto mo. mahirap na"sasabihin niya "di ka parin ba makagetover sa nangyari. ang bitter mo" ang labo tlga. parang paano ako magbabago kung sa pagbabagong yun mali parin ako sa paningin mo?   >:(
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Re: Things You Don't Understand With Guys..
« Reply #2243 on: January 14, 2012, 01:51:38 am »
Bakit hindi sila makuntento?
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Re: Things You Don't Understand With Guys..
« Reply #2244 on: January 14, 2012, 02:00:07 am »
Bakit hindi sila makuntento?
Simple answer....... Men can never be "just satisfied"

We will always want something that is out of the ordinary. Especially if everything we have so far is something we consider ordinary already


and why are girls angry at men that are not satisfied? ...........because you dont stimulate his imagination enough to keep him interested.
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Re: Things You Don't Understand With Guys..
« Reply #2245 on: January 14, 2012, 02:57:56 am »
Simple answer....... Men can never be "just satisfied"

We will always want something that is out of the ordinary. Especially if everything we have so far is something we consider ordinary already


and why are girls angry at men that are not satisfied? ...........because you dont stimulate his imagination enough to keep him interested.

Haha, Thanks! :)
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Re: Things You Don't Understand With Guys..
« Reply #2246 on: January 14, 2012, 03:24:26 am »
Oy may ganito dito? HAHA :D
Tsss. di na lang ako sasali  :)

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Re: Things You Don't Understand With Guys..
« Reply #2247 on: January 15, 2012, 02:23:58 pm »
How they can easily make you feel guilty after you tease them. Like they are offended. Or talagang na-offend nga sila?  ::) Tapos magpapalambing pa muna bago ka pansinin ulit!  :D
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Re: Things You Don't Understand With Guys..
« Reply #2248 on: January 16, 2012, 05:57:37 pm »
How they can easily make you feel guilty after you tease them. Like they are offended. Or talagang na-offend nga sila?  ::) Tapos magpapalambing pa muna bago ka pansinin ulit!  :D

Ganun po tlaga kami, hindi lang nmn kayo ung marunong mag pa guilty e. hehe kami din. tska nasa guy na din po kung na offend tlaga sila or magpapalambing lang. HAHA! :D

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Re: Things You Don't Understand With Guys..
« Reply #2249 on: February 11, 2012, 09:20:03 pm »
ano po ba ang dapat gawin sa mga lalaking torpe? di ba pwedeng iumpog nalang para umamin? di naman sa feeling ako haa, pero may times kasi na nandun na. konting tulak nalang. di naman kasi ako ganun ka manhid tsaka sabi naman din ng friends ko eh. ayaw ko naman magpaka assuming kasi iba talaga kung siya na mismo ang umamin. ayaw ko naman na ako ang first move. nakakainis lang yung ngayon lalandiin ka, bukas di ka na papansinin. T.T

 

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