Blamed by Most Trusted Family Member

[vanilla_bean]

Ever had someone who you really trusted in your family or friends? Only to find they've betrayed you?

Well, I'm experiencing that now. I have this tita, but she's only 19 years old (two years older than me!), so I find her like an 'ate'. And we're really really really close. Only to find today that she's blaming me for something she did..

I feel really upset. I mean, I love her! She's always been there for me and I always hang out with her. When we're in trouble she helps me out, and she's one of the people who taught me streetwise stuffs in the Philippines..

What do I do? ;.; In her FB status, it says something like 'You do NOT touch my family!'. What happened? I have no idea what's going on.. ;.;

[msjane]

what does she mean "you do not touch my family" ? uhhh aren't yall family to begin with?

stop moping about it and start defending yourself! go to all of your family and relatives and tell them the truth. i understand you're upset but just because they're family doesn't mean they're not going to hurt you. understand that.

[vanilla_bean]

^

(We are family, but she means her side of the family. I'm only a niece and I'm just staying at their place until I finish my studies. It's just the way she said it - I feel alienated.)

I did just that and now she wouldn't even look at me. ;.; She's been grounded now by her parents and suspended in school as well... I didn't want her to get in trouble at all and now she's giving me cold shoulders.

It's just feels really lonely without my parents and siblings to comfort me.

[msjane]

just ignore her, don't give her the satisfaction by letting her control your emotions. give her the cold shoulder too! she doesn't own you or the house your staying; her parents are so fck her lol.