LOVE WITHOUT THE BS-mark0110's take on your love problems.

[chuck ass]

Okay..none of my friends can answer this question, hopefully you can.

So my ex and I broke up. It wasn't a good break up, but we managed to be "friends" after a month. We ended up hooking up once at my friend's party after we broke up. But when we hooked up, he tried to do more but I stopped him and he literally left me there at the party. And I found out that week that he was pissed coz of that so I was like okayyy, all he wants is to hook up, fuuuck that :p so then we didn't talk for a long time.

After that, I would hear little comments and rumors about him talking crap about me, about like the stuff we did when we were together so I was like wtf really?! Thennnn, last week, he texts me after not having ANY communication whatsoever basically telling me that he feels good, he's with one of my best friends and my best friend was making him feel good and idk what....basically implying that they were doing something even tho I KNEW they weren't coz my best friend has a boyfriend and she would never cheat on him. So I texted my bestfriend and she told me that they're at her house with a couple of people and she kinda gave him a massage coz he asked her to but it was like for 5 minutes.

Oh and he's ruining my relationship with the guy I'm seeing right now by telling people that the guy I'm seeing likes someone else (who happens to be his friend).

He says he doesn't care about me and what I feel, he doesn't respect me whatsoever and I did NOT do anything to him. I didn't talk crap about him or did anything mean. So if he doesn't care about me, why the hellllll is he doing this?! Like I actually tried being friends with him. I'm actually the one who made the effort to be friends with him again even tho I know I didn't have to. So wtffff -.-

well, obviously, he cares enough to go out of his way just so he can !@#$ you off. why he's doing the things he do is beyond me. might i suggest that you fight a-hole with a-hole? (i'm so juvenile, i know )

p.s. perhaps he's trying to make a chuck bass - blair waldorf situation here. we all know how that went.

[mangaagaw]

Um I actually don't know what happened between chuck and blair lol but I guess I get the idea.

And I've tried being an !@#$ to him last weekend by rubbing it in that I'm seeing someone else so he needs to grow up and stop acting like a little girl...I mean, he's the one who messed up, and idk why he !@#$ messes up my life, he already went out with this one girl after me who cheated on him, karma, so why me? I didn't do shitt to him! Ughh

[joyceanne08]

Thanks for answering my previous post.Another question,ano masasabi mo sa lalakeng halos araw-araw nakikipagbreak sa gf nya?

[chuck ass]

Um I actually don't know what happened between chuck and blair lol but I guess I get the idea.

And I've tried being an !@#$ to him last weekend by rubbing it in that I'm seeing someone else so he needs to grow up and stop acting like a little girl...I mean, he's the one who messed up, and idk why he !@#$ messes up my life, he already went out with this one girl after me who cheated on him, karma, so why me? I didn't do shitt to him! Ughh

i really have no idea. haha. you prolly come off as an easy target? in any case, don't dwell on trying to rationalize why he's making your life hell, you deal with it

Thanks for answering my previous post.Another question,ano masasabi mo sa lalakeng halos araw-araw nakikipagbreak sa gf nya?

parang tanga. if i was the girl, i'd break it off with him for good. it may hurt at first but i'm pretty sure it will be damn worth it.

[mangaagaw]

Yeah I guess...fucckkkk him.

[gRaceYmiMi]

lagi akong tinatanong ng couz ko about this hindi ko naman masagot, kasi hindi ko din alam yung sagot.. hehe

is there a possibility ba na magkagusto ang guy
sa girl na lagi nyang nakikita,
hindi sila magkakilala and they notice each others presence when they're out with their family and even in school with their friends,
tapos lagi nakatingin sa girl pag nagkakasalubong sila o kahit nakaupo lang sa isang place??

[JSmoove]

of course, why not?

pero the thing is, who will take the first initiative to approach the other person?

[chuck ass]

lagi akong tinatanong ng couz ko about this hindi ko naman masagot, kasi hindi ko din alam yung sagot.. hehe

is there a possibility ba na magkagusto ang guy
sa girl na lagi nyang nakikita,
hindi sila magkakilala and they notice each others presence when they're out with their family and even in school with their friends,
tapos lagi nakatingin sa girl pag nagkakasalubong sila o kahit nakaupo lang sa isang place??

err attracted maybe? but it sounds like you're talking about a 'love' kinda attraction here. i'll say no to that.

[purpleclover]

lagi akong tinatanong ng couz ko about this hindi ko naman masagot, kasi hindi ko din alam yung sagot.. hehe

is there a possibility ba na magkagusto ang guy
sa girl na lagi nyang nakikita,
hindi sila magkakilala and they notice each others presence when they're out with their family and even in school with their friends,
tapos lagi nakatingin sa girl pag nagkakasalubong sila o kahit nakaupo lang sa isang place??

this happened to me before..feeling ko, there's a possibility na magkagusto si guy.  Pero not always..kasi kung lagi mong nakikita, eventually madedevelop ka.

[wicked~sistah]

hello mark! just recently, my bestfriend confessed na he's inlove with me daw. (and i think i'm inlove with him too) But it's only been 5 months since he broke up with his MU(crappy I know) of 4 years wherein during that relationship, he has tried to contol his feelings for me daw. they didnt break up because of me btw. i could possibly be a rebound girl, noh? sad part is, im in love with him too. pero daming circumstances to consider:(

[chuck ass]

hello mark! just recently, my bestfriend confessed na he's inlove with me daw. (and i think i'm inlove with him too) But it's only been 5 months since he broke up with his MU(crappy I know) of 4 years wherein during that relationship, he has tried to contol his feelings for me daw. they didnt break up because of me btw. i could possibly be a rebound girl, noh? sad part is, im in love with him too. pero daming circumstances to consider:(

5 months is almost like half a year, that's a long time na rin. it's not like there's a formula to determine how long you should be single before you start dating another person. i say just do what you feel is right, don't be too afraid to make mistakes. better make mistakes and learn from it while you're still young

[broken_wings32226]

Hi i need for your advice
I had a boyfriend when i was in hs, we brok :-[e up and the relationship lasted for several months. after that we decided not to enter the relationship even if we both know that we still love each other. We both didnt enter into any relationship. And we've wainting for the right timing that we can be together again. 5 years na kaming nagaantayan. Dumating yung time na sabi ng parents k9 na aftergraduation pupunta na ako ng australia para dun nalang magmedicine. And i told him that. Tinatanong ko siya kung kakayanin niya ung LDR kasi ako kakayanin ko, inantay ko ng matagal to eh. Sabi.niya sakin ayaw niya mag take ng RISK. Ano gagawin ko? Hindi ko din magets kung bakit ayaw niya magtake ng risk eh magkahiwalay nga kami ng school na pinapasukan tapos hindi din kami halos nagkikita.

[chuck ass]

@broken_wings32226: hindi niyo kakayanin ang LDR. nung pareho nga kayo nandito sa manila hindi niyo napa-work, LDR pa kaya? Okay to be fair, there's a very slight chance that a miracle would happen and somehow things would work out while you're in a foreign land. give yourself this chance to explore your options, time to reflect if you really want to be in a relationship with this dude, malalaman mo lang talaga yun if you distance yourself from him. Iba din kasi yung magkahiwalay lang kayo ng school sa wala ka sa manila.

[mangaagaw]

Homaygadddd I want a boyprennn D: bahahahaha sike!