what if your mom caught you...

[asianbaby]

okay, gurlz i have a friend and we just talked while ago... she was crying and all that.. . she told me what happened and this is how it goes.... .she and her bf went to their house and they went to her room.... after that.. . a minute or so they felt that they want to do "it".. .so they while theyre doing it her mom came and saw them doing it.... obviously her mom got mad as hell.. . but you cant blame them 'cuz we have a different generation now right???.. . . UGH! i dunno waht to say but i dont blame my friend and her bf.... . . so yah,, any comments gurlz???

[catherine_88]

Didn't they ever heard of locking the doors? lol.

i guess your friend should talk to her mother. clear things up or something. i don't really know what to say, this never happens to me. i'm very careful.

[leanne_hat]

pag gumawa ng 'kalukuhan' dapat walang sablay

nag 'it' naba sila ng mahuli or going pa?

you must advice your friend and be with her lalo na sa times that she badly needed you

[aoshi_01]

if i were your friend, i'd apologize to the mom...but of course don't expect forgiveness right away. let's face it, in the eyes of our parents we (especially us girls) would always be their babies/little girls.

trust me, i know. i'm 25 years old already (and managing my own business) and yet they are still super strict with me.

[babypinko8]

Oh my gosh. dont they lock the doors. I really do not know what to say. I want to say that they shouldnt be doing that because they are married but yes, our generation is different from before. I am old fashioned. Haha.

Anyways, let her talk to her mom. She cant avoid her forever. It would be hard but i think she should suffer the consequence. Plus the boyfriend should also talk to the mom.

[asianbaby]

i dunno what to say to her either... . . kase naman!!! ammmp
i knoe her mother and she is really strict to my friend... .
kase only child lang sya so sya lang yung inaasahan talaga..
ang hirap nga eh... . .di koh din lam kung san koh lulugar ngayon..
pero naaawa din akoh.. imagine myself in her situation eh talagang
mahirap... the TRUST was gone...and mahirap nang ibalik yun i knoe..
pero different naman na yung generation naten compare to them right???
and my friend was already eighteen.. . .but still her mom was treating her
like a baby.. ni hindi nga pinapayagan pumunta ng party eh!.. . . *sigh*

[megumiselvana]

Grabe naman yun. Di ko ma-imagine. 
She should talk to her mom and say sorry. Pero yun nga, mahirap na din ibalik yung trust ng mother nya. Ako nga eh, nalaman lang nilang nagka boyfriend ako once, 2 years bago sila nagkaroon uli ng trust sakin. What more pa kaya yung friend mo na nahuli?

[paraluman]

ha.

Ang saklap naman noon. Kahit anong usap ang gawin mo sa nanay mo, walang magagawa iyon. Tanggapin na lang ang mali. Don't justify it by saying na "iba na ang generation ngayon". That doesn't give you the right to do it.

Buti na lang ako, hindi pa nahuhuli. Magaling eh. haha

But I've been caught doing drugs, yun, masakit talaga.

[charmaine00]

grabe yun! siguro thats the worst thing that could ever happen to me!
siguro bugbog abot ko!
di ko alam sasabihin ko!

[greensanguine]

They should've gotten a room somewhere else or at least locked the door.

Talking to her mom would be awkward. I don't know, just forget the incident I guess and not do it again in her place. Geez.

[the_pam_jelly]

Oh my.

Kahit na iba na generation ngayon, we should still apply our tradition - no "it" unless you're married. LOL. But seriously, kasalanan pa rin, lalo na parent pa 'yung nakakita.

Or, err.. at least lock the door. Hehe. Kidding.

She should talk to her mom, say sorry. But don't expect forgiveness right away kase medyo mabigat din 'yung kasalanan. Maybe 'pag medyo tumagal na and walang nagawang kasalanan/kalokohan 'yung friend mo, mapapatawad din 'yan.

[mRs_sPoNgEbOb_sQuArEpAnTs]

hala..

ang hirap naman.. dapat sinara nila yung door or kung di man, di na lang nila ginawa dahil nanjan yung mom.. i'm not against sa premarital sex, but sana pinag-isipan mabuti..

i don't know what to advice, kasi saying sorry to her mother is so kulang..

[misery]

Your mother could deal with this in 2 ways - ignore it or address it.

If she ignores that anything happened, best to bring it up with her.

If she addresses she'll be angry and worried about you.  She can either be more restraining to you or she could learn that you are becoming an adult and go for a better option and teach you about sex health, etc.

[vampirelle]

eh sis ilang taon na ba ung friend mo?

mashado namang awkward ung situatin na yon! Imagine mahuli ka ng mom mo doing 'it' with your bf?! and sa room mo pa! If they really wanna do 'it', dapat sana naging more careful sila. Knowing na nasa house din ung mom nya nung mga moment na yon.

argh! cant imagine myself pag nalagay ako sa ganyang situation!

[aznbelle89]

She (and maybe even her boyfriend) should talk to her mom about it. It's going to be really awkward but she has to. I hope that they were at least using protection... and she can tell her mom that.

Don't use the "it's a different generation" excuse (parents don't buy it) or the "I'm old enough to know what I'm doing" excuse. She should show her mom that she IS old enough to know what she's doing by going over what she's been doing to protect herself and by clearing up any presumptions her mom has made (her mom probably thinks -- although I hope not -- she does this a lot) about her.