Does your bestfriend belong to the opposite sex? Thread II. Dish it up here!

[kyutishi]

kyutishi --> hindi ko nga alam. it's not normal na anymore. he's to different na. grabehan na. what happened to him? he made iwas to me on my birthday bec he sees the girl he courted in me because im a very close friend of that girl. eh si friend and me are always as in always together and always talking... he can't move on daw kasi itong si girl biglang nagka bf na kahit ako eh sobrang nagulat (nasaktan din ako for my guy friend, kahit friend ko din si girl). hindi ko alam if ayun talaga yung reason niya why he make iwas na sa akin.

more than a month na siyang umiwas, though we talk na ulit. he initiated it. kinamusta niya ako randomly na kinagulat ko rin kasi hindi nga niya ako pinapansin in school. then, he ask advice na ulit sa akin, basically opening up na ulit. after that talk akala ko okay na ulit ang lahat. kasi ganun na ulit siya eh diba? but know, nun nagkita kami sa school, he's still different, i'm still invisible to him. =( i called on him, but he just looked at me. =( di ko alam ang labo. but if you read multiply comments, nagcocomment kasi ako sa posts niya, he replies pa rin.. normal siya. pero harapan hindi. labo. it's not normal na!!! mukang naka move on na siya from my friend pero bakit ganun pa rin siya sa akin.. =(

???wow..as in ang labo niya..if you're saying that maybe he's just doing that coz of your girl friend that he courted,unfair sayo yon kasi parang ti-nake for granted niya closeness niniyo just because of that girl..ouch,as in ang sakit non ..tinanong mo na ba siya kung ano ba talagang problem?..well,ang laking sayang kung ganonn  nga..x0X0x

[kyutishi]

they are realy different..they know how to be honest or pranka infront of you..and hindi talaga sila nakakasakit..pero sometimes mahirap din siang intindihin..x0X0x

[+*meemchee*+]

I have two loyal bestfriends. One girl and one boy.  Anyway, basta yun na yun. Haha.  Name ng girl is Mikee and yung boy si Rex. 

[kyutishi]

oo sis super ang labo labo niya. hindi lang maybe sis eh, he really told me na kaya siya iwan bec of that reason. as in sinabi niya talaga. i know it super unfair. pero wala naman ako magagawa. di ko naman pwede pagpilitan sarili ko sa kanya didnt ask na kung ano ba talaga problema niya. ayaw ko na malaman.. di ko alam super labo niya lang talaga. kakaiba siya. parang hindi siya yung nakilala ko. hayaan ko na nga lang eh. kung mag mukmok pa ko wala na mangyayari sakin. move on na ko. liv and let liv! bahala siya. marerealize niya din yung worth ko. hay.

kamusta na kayo ng bestfriend mo?..pero,open ka pa rin ba if suddenly he realized that he's wrong and he that he still needs you?..x0X0x

[kyutishi]

wow..it's been 2 weeks since i last visited here,really miss being here..been busy,as in..anyway,:o.talk about my best guyfriend..i'm happy,nagparamdam na siya ulit..yes!!,,he texted me,kaso sandali lang..miss na miss ko na siya..x0X0x

[artisticgirl89]

note to self: dont fall for your boy bestbud. 

[mk.blue_48]

may bestfriend din akong lalaki....bestfriend lng talaga tingin ko sakanya...kya lng....dalwa kasi ung bestfriend ko na lalaki eh...eh naiilang ako kasi ung isa...pag mag kasama kami nung isa....sinasabi nung isa...nagseselos daw siya....tapos minsan niloloko nia ako na...mahal daw nia ako....ung pabiro....tapos tinatawag pa nia akong honey???....arrgghh!! nakakailang....pero kahit nakakailang di ko pinapahalata sa kanya...hayyy....

[spitfire]

buong buhay ko hindi ko naranasan magkaron ng best friend. Lately lang. Yep, from the opposite sex, guy siya at girl ako. I'm not really sure how to be a best friend, kung ano ba talaga ibig sabihin non, but with him, I'm learning. Haha! I'm not a very friendly person kase.

[ahra]

back in highskul i had guy bestfriends talaga..but now, awkward na kasi..hehe..i have a lot of gay friends though

[mai_mai]

my best friend is a guy. well actually, we are really of two different worlds. he's the campus heartthrob and i'm like the genius one who's running for honors. when we were in elementary, we don't even talk. but since we went to high school, that's when our friendship started. i go to a science high school and he's still studying in my school when i was in grade school. sometimes i would come to a point wherein i get so scared of what others might say. cuz first of all, the mindset of others about a girl having a guy best friend is that those two are already going out which is pretty impossible to happen. second, my best friend had a gf that actually was jealous of me. from that day on, i started getting scared about what my former schoolmates would say once they found out that he's my best friend and i'm his best friend.

[kyutishi]

kyutishi --> ayun.. haven't talk to him for the longest time. last that i talked to him was when i messaged him when i was crying and really had no one to talk to, sobrang nilakasan ko na lang loob ko. nag usap kami konti pero he wasnt able to console me na dahil nawala siya bigla.

i asked our common friends how he is now, they said, he's busy training for starbucks. im glad bec he wanted to really work in their. hay. i miss him.

yeah im still open im really are. super miss ko na siya

wow.. im glad okie na kayo ni bestfriend! i hope continues na yan! nakakamiss din kwentuhan dito di na madalas..

really sorry kung now lang ako nakapagreply..2 weeks na naman,can't find time to open my account..usually pag mag-iinternet man ak,for researches lang..been VEEEEEEEEEEEEERY BUSY..

bout your friend,sayang talaga na walang pinatunguhan friendship niyo..sobrang nakakapanghinayang.. hintayin niyo na lang maging cool ang lahat,then maybe in time,maging okey na ulit lahat,..basta kahit hindi na kayo close,you should show na open ka pa rin for him,..baka kasi now,gusto na niyang maging okey kayo but he's just afraid that you would reject him because of what he did..tingin ko lang ha..basta,keep living girl.. AJAH!!
x0X0x

[fhoebe2316]

WELL . HERE'S MY STORY .
I HAVE 2 BESTFRIENDS BUT I HAVE ALSO THIS ONE GUY BEST FRIEND AND WE JUST CALLED EACH OTHER BESTIES JUST THIS YEAR , WE SHARE LOTS OF SECRETS AND WE UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER . WE BOTH ARE HEARTBROKEN BUT IM LEFT NOT MOVING ON . SHE HAD FOUND HER LOVE AND HE IS JUST WAITING FOR THE RIGHT TIME . HE REALLY THANKED ME FOR EVERYTHING THAT I HAVE DONE FOR HIM . I REALLY HELPED HIM A LOT . HE HELPS ME TOO . WE CRACK JOKES AND TEASE EACH OTHER . HE EVEN PRETENDED THAT I AM HIS CRUSH TO COVER UP HIS NEW CRUSH . HAHA . MANY GOT FOOLED .

A LOT OF MY CLASSMATES AND SOME PEOPLE IN SCHOOL TOLD US THAT MAYBE SOMEDAY WE'LL BE DEVELOPED WHICH I THINK WOULD BE IMPOSSIBLE . WELL . I WONT LET THAT HAPPEN COZ WE'L REALLY LOSE OUR FRIENDSHIP . AND BETTER YET,, WE'LL STAY AS FRIENDS .

[purpleclover]

bat ako wala?! im dying to have one...before i used to imagine an "imaginary guy bff" ahhh.... too bad, wala na yata talaga.

[shmaine]

yes, the three of them.
sometimes, its easier to spill things up. there's reall a big difference between the care a guy friend and a girl friend can do.

and another thing, there's a lot of things that a guy could do for you compared to the thing that your girl friends could.

[xxiv]

Before, I had a opposite sex bestfriend. but I have to end things up because he wanted more than what we have. for some people, it is a good advantage for them if they woll enter a relationship with the one they truly know. what if that's you guy bestfriend? would you dare to connect with it? actually, it depends. if you find him the right one maybe you can manage to handle everything but if there's really nothing.. it is definitely useless.. never enter it if you're really not sure with it. cause it will ruin everything you had. nakakapanghinayang yung mga memories nyo together.the good friendship with me & my ex-bestfriend have actually ruined because of that naughty situation.