middle child syndrome..

[~~GILL~~]

It's true in a lot of situations. In mine, I think I am.

I used to be this smart and goody goody girl but deep inside I had so much angst. As I went way more through my teens, mas naging bukas ako sa mga opinions ko and became more angsty and sometimes I think I became intellectually bobo  (But no naman ha. I think that because I'm afraid that I'm not as smart as I used to be. But that's a bit stupid  ). But you know no one's listening and most of the time, no one notices. It hurts that they only see that thing in you when you've shown so much kindness to them. It can hurt that most of the time, no one listens and even wants to listen. They only hear you, think you're saying this and then they scold you. Among the three siblings, I'm the one who hears the most hurtful things from my parents.

And there are times also na parang your other siblings get more advantages than you. That ticks me off a lot because I'm all about justice and I hate that ako lang yung laging pinapagalitan because I'm not the only one who sins.

But ewan ko kung bakit ganito lang sa bahay but out I get along with a lot of people unlike my siblings who seem to shy away. I know a lot of middle children get that advantage

[*_* xAra *_*]

middle child ako pero hindi ako yung blacksheep. ako nga ung pinakamabait(feeling ko lang).
ako yung naiiba sa 2 siblings ko.

[hopia mani]

the way i understand the middle child syndrome is independent, always compromises, and kind of the odd-one-out, so maybe (yes) a black sheep.
i admit i have the middle child syndrome firstly because im a middle child (duh), secondly i don't confide or not open with any of my family members (only with my friends), thirdly, yes i feel that i get the least attention but that's ok, and lastly, I'm kind of an introvert.
so i guess it's true.

[posh26]

I am a middle child.
And I can proudly say na sobrang bait ko sa magulang ko..
Un nga lang, pagdating sa love, dun ako naging black sheep.
nainlove ng sobra, nagkaanak ng maaga.
im really sorry for that.
but atleast I became responsible raising the baby.

[tinalicious_101]

even though i'm a middle child now, I don't consider myself as one.

WHY? I basically grew up being the bunso. The real bunso was born when I was 16.

AGE GAAAAAP.

[SLLB]

the way i understand the middle child syndrome is independent, always compromises, and kind of the odd-one-out, so maybe (yes) a black sheep.
i admit i have the middle child syndrome firstly because im a middle child (duh), secondly i don't confide or not open with any of my family members (only with my friends), thirdly, yes i feel that i get the least attention but that's ok, and lastly, I'm kind of an introvert.
so i guess it's true.

pareho tayo. pero i think that doesn't mean naman na we're blacksheep na.

Lagi kami magkaaway ng mga kapatid ko, i'm the only girl so yun laging kawawa. With my elder brother ok kami dati away pero bati din agad, ngayon we live in the same house pero we don't speak with each other for i think almost 4 years now. deadma lang lagi kahit kami lang dalawa sa house. honestly 'di ko na nga maalala yung reason bakit kami magkaaway basta ang alam ko lang galit ako sa kaniya. With the bunso naman, minsan ok kami minsan hindi, kapag may kailangan siya kahit na magkaaway kami 'di ko siya matiis kaya still ginagawa ko pa rin yung pinapagawa niya,  kapag galit siya iintindihin mo na lang pero kapag ako yung badtrip ako pa din ang umintindi.

Di ko maintindihan kung bakit ganun parents ko. kahit ako na agrabyado sa aming tatlo ako pa rin may kasalanan, ako pa rin dapat magsorry, "ikaw mas bata dapat igalang mo yung kuya mo, ikaw mas matanda kaya intindihin mo na lang ang kapatid mo." whenever my brothers want something they could easily it while ako kailangan laging magparaya.

ang sad ng life. 

i don't consider myself as a blacksheep, pero after all that, sometimes i think they do.

[ayrhiz27]

In my case, I don't feel anything awkward or any feelings I should not feel since I really, really don't give a damn about this condition. Haha. Well, that's just me and my parents always see to it that the four of us are treated fair and square. It entirely depends on how parents handle the family and of course, they should be visible to their children specially in the molding years. Yeah, growth and development is a complex process but see to it that children are guided.

Bottom line: Life is so simple if you know just how to live. Don't waste your time making problems.

[ishe]

bunso po ako!!


pero tingin ko di namn yan totoo. . kasi hindi naman ganyan si ate. .
siya pa nga ang breadwinner ng family eh