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[neknek]

[/color][/size][/font] hi! im not sure if you still remember me..ive once shared my problem here about my friends..its been a long time since then...i thought everything was fine after our exchange of emails here..but now i still feel bad about this friendship i have with my so called friends..bakit?! actually everything seems to be fine but we're not just close like before.. i tried to reach out to her and showed that even if i felt hurt about her actions toward me i didnt change and that whenever she needed someone to be there beside her im present. i always wanted the best for my friends. kaya naman i tried my best to help her in a having a job. wala pa kasi syang trabaho because she resigned with her job in a private school coz she decided to transfer in a public school.but unfortunately di sya natawagan.kya naman nang may magleave sa school namin i told our head na pwede sya.so i called her up that very moment,,three calls before she answered. then narinig ko pa sabi ng nanay nya "yan ayaw kasing sagutin" though i feel bad about that words of her mother kasi feeling ko talagang iniiwasan ako ng friend ko na yun but i dont know why,,but then i disregard that,,i told my friend that we need a substitute teacher and i insisted that she should go in school. after the talk our head asked me if thats confirmed i told her yes. ayun may job na sya.so the moment she traveled going to school i really texted her kung nasaan na sya at kung paano sya pupunta sa school. sinundo ko pa nga sya sa gate ng school eh. i really had a lot of effort. then nung nasa school na sya i tried to make her feel very much welcome.pinahiram ko pa nga sya ng book at ng mga gamit ko sa school. though i didnt think of hearing any thank you from her kasi nga hindi ko naman hinihintay yun.but when a co teacher asked me ano daw sabi sa akin nung friend ko nung natanggap sya sa school. dun ko narealize that it seemed she didnt appreciated my effort. she didnt tell me THANK YOU! dahil i helped her. wala talaga. alam mo yung feeling na you almost do everything for her tapos wla lng lhat at muka pa ngang minamasama nya yung mga tulong ko..yung book na pinahiram ko isinasauli pa nya. db?! medyo nakakasakit yun. im here exerting all my effort so that everything will be fine and be back on track kaya lang sya yung ayaw. tapos i always texted her everyday "ingat" sa tuwing alam kong pauwi na sya. masyado kasi syang malayo from the work place. pero she just take it forgranted. aloam ko naman may load sya eh but she didnt texted me back.tapos in the faculty she never exert any effort to talk to me..yung tipong magkukwentuhan kami.as in wala talaga. napaktahimik. sabi nga nila para daw kaming hindi magkaibigan. i dont know whats really happening. i dont know why she acted like that. kasi ako i know im just doing everything for her to feel better in school. naguguluhan na nga ako. i dont want to ruin the friendship but im so tired forcing her to treat me just like before. di ko na alam ang dapat kong gawin..what do you think?

actually im not sure if i could read your reply as soon as you write it.,.but then i wanted you to know that the mere fact that youre going to read this i feel fine. atleast nailabas ko yung nararamdaman ko at this moment. pasensya na lang kung may mga maling spellings kasi di ko na tinitingnan. i just wrote whats on my mind.

god bless

[LittleSunshine]

hi! i need ur advice (or anyone's)...
sorry sis. mahaba to e. long story kasi talaga @_@ thank you

There's this guy, 'oliver', na parang naging close friend na rin ng barkada friends ko cguro last year lang. it wasnt until my birthday when i found out na may gusto pala siya sakin...nung feb pa ata nadevelop.  eh i have this gay friend rin, 'anthony', na nagkagusto dito kay oliver na nagstart nung summer ata. 

nung month the bday ko, dun nagstart magka hint yung barkada ko na may something kami ni oliver. tapos i think nung monday, nagkwentuhan kami ni anthony about kay oliver. he told me na he liked oliver daw tapos leche daw ako inagaw ko daw (which is of course, pa joke lang. nagtatawanan pa nga kami) tapos nagkkwento din siya sakin about sa sinasabi ni anthony about sakin. na parang minsan daw walang gana gumawa ng project si anthony kasi di na daw ako nakikita, parang ganun. tapos may point na naaasar pa nga siya kay oliver kasi lagi parang walang focus dahil nga samin.  tapos iba na daw crush ni anthony. kaya all the while ang nasa isip ko ok lang kami.

tapos parang these past few days parang galit na sakin ni anthony.  hindi niya ako kinakausap unless kakausapin ko siya. tapos parang galit pa kung makausap.  i asked my other friends sabi nila baka daw galit sakin kasi inagaw ko daw si oliver.  eh feel ko hindi un yung reason kasi sabi niya ok naman daw sa kanya.  and sabi sakin ni 'carmela' hindi daw galit sakin si anthony. parang included lang daw ako sa reason kung bakit siya galit pero wala daw akong ginawa na ikakagalit ni anthony. 

parang naaasar na tuloy ako. kasi if ever si oliver nga ung reason, sabi niya sakin he's ok with that naman. tsaka ngayon kasi malabo kami ngayon ni oliver. as in hindi kami naguusap.  hindi rin naman kami. hindi na rin kmi sabay umuwi.  tapos lagi pa kasama ni anthony si oliver kasi mag ka thesis sila. kaya what's his problem?? naiinis na rin tuloy ako.

sabi ng ibang friends ko pabayaan ko lang daw. kasi the same thing happened to anthony dati with a different guy tsaka girl na friends din namin. sabi sakin nung girl na feel niya din daw na galit sa kanya si anthony nun.  nawala nalang daw after a few weeks.  pero nawala yun kasi na-crushan na niya si oliver nun @_@ pano un kelangan may iba pa siya ma crushan bago kami maging friends ulit??

tapos ma-mood swing daw naman talaga si anthony. yun tipong trip ka niya this day and then the next hindi na. @_@ pero parang ang babaw naman pag ganun :|

Please please help. sorry kung ang haba. thank you!

[x-y]

Hi everyone! I'll be locking this thread from now on. This is because I only have little time to browse TeenTalk. I only visit for my moderating job. And I feel sorry for not replying here immediately. So if you are seeking for an advice, please go to my advice-seeking website: http://likedreamersdo.org OR http://dearxyla.tumblr.com/ The form will be forwarded to my mail and expect a faster reply than here. I hope you understand! So please, the above senders, I hope you can send me your problems again. I am very sorry for the late notice.