Nurse Xyla's Advice thread. Please read page 1.

[x-y]

I'll introduce myself again. I am Xyla. I am twenty-four (24) year old registered nurse. I am an old teentalker who is now promoted as a senior moderator.

If you have questions in any field, don't hesitate to ask me and I'll try to give you an advice. I won't really tell you what you want to hear. I am just here to advice you the right thing to do. Okay?

If you have confidential problems, you can PM me.

Please follow the HOUSE RULES before posting.

Always remember that good communication is always the answer in misunderstandings.

♥ Ate/Nurse Xyla
Senior Moderator

July 28, 2009

TeenTalkers, if you need advice and you want to talk in private you can always post here: http://nursecissism.com/advice/ Your messages will be sent to my email and I will reply back to your email address.

I seldom visit TeenTalk because I am very busy with my work and my post-graduate studies. I always check my email so posting in that link is much more welcome.

Thank you! God bless!

[ghirlhie]

hi po ate xyla..

i dunno kung pwede magpost dito, nadelete po ata lahat ng posts here.
btw i'm mau.
i've got a problem..
kahapon, my friend told me na she's transferring to another school this june.
i was shocked. then nalungkot agad ako.
naging friends kami since 1st yr hs. then ngayon na final year na namin sa highschool, saka pa sya lilipat.. 
naintindihan ko din yung reason nya eh. she lives in cubao, pero ang school nya sa bulacan kaya ang layo, sobrang nahihirapan sya.
pero alam mo yun, kahit gusto kong intindihin, di ko parin matanggap..
naiiyak nalang talaga ako pag naaalala ko.. bakit ngayon pa diba?
then, parang limited na yung days na pwede ko syang makasama.
i was asking her last night if we could go out some time, pero ang dami nyang excuses..
nasaktan talaga ako. parang... i want to make it up to her.. i admit nung nasa 3rd year kami, medyo nawala closeness namin, pero andun parin yung friendship eh, and i care for this friend so much.
sa totoo nga lang, daig ko pa nawalan ng boyfriend. ganun naman siguro talaga pag close ka sa girl friend mo, right?
di ko talaga alam ang gagawin ko ngayon..
kung di ko na magagawang makalabas with her ngayong summer, kelan pa? sa june di ko na sya makikita.
i asked her too kung pwede ng Saturday, pero may gawain daw sila sa church nila nun. 

nalulungkot talaga ako ate xyla... i wanna cry... 

[x-y]

hi po ate xyla..

i dunno kung pwede magpost dito, nadelete po ata lahat ng posts here.
btw i'm mau.
i've got a problem..
kahapon, my friend told me na she's transferring to another school this june.
i was shocked. then nalungkot agad ako.
naging friends kami since 1st yr hs. then ngayon na final year na namin sa highschool, saka pa sya lilipat.. 
naintindihan ko din yung reason nya eh. she lives in cubao, pero ang school nya sa bulacan kaya ang layo, sobrang nahihirapan sya.
pero alam mo yun, kahit gusto kong intindihin, di ko parin matanggap..
naiiyak nalang talaga ako pag naaalala ko.. bakit ngayon pa diba?
then, parang limited na yung days na pwede ko syang makasama.
i was asking her last night if we could go out some time, pero ang dami nyang excuses..
nasaktan talaga ako. parang... i want to make it up to her.. i admit nung nasa 3rd year kami, medyo nawala closeness namin, pero andun parin yung friendship eh, and i care for this friend so much.
sa totoo nga lang, daig ko pa nawalan ng boyfriend. ganun naman siguro talaga pag close ka sa girl friend mo, right?
di ko talaga alam ang gagawin ko ngayon..
kung di ko na magagawang makalabas with her ngayong summer, kelan pa? sa june di ko na sya makikita.
i asked her too kung pwede ng Saturday, pero may gawain daw sila sa church nila nun. 

nalulungkot talaga ako ate xyla... i wanna cry... 

Aww. I am so sorry to hear that. I think it would be better if you tell her what you feel about this situation para aware siya. Malay mo, magawan nya ng paraan. Don't assume kagad na she's making excuses since transferring to another school needs a lot of preparations. Just tell her your concerns. Okay? Update me na lang.

[Power_of_Angel]

hi po ate xyla..

i dunno kung pwede magpost dito, nadelete po ata lahat ng posts here.
btw i'm mau.
i've got a problem..
kahapon, my friend told me na she's transferring to another school this june.
i was shocked. then nalungkot agad ako.
naging friends kami since 1st yr hs. then ngayon na final year na namin sa highschool, saka pa sya lilipat.. 
naintindihan ko din yung reason nya eh. she lives in cubao, pero ang school nya sa bulacan kaya ang layo, sobrang nahihirapan sya.
pero alam mo yun, kahit gusto kong intindihin, di ko parin matanggap..
naiiyak nalang talaga ako pag naaalala ko.. bakit ngayon pa diba?
then, parang limited na yung days na pwede ko syang makasama.
i was asking her last night if we could go out some time, pero ang dami nyang excuses..
nasaktan talaga ako. parang... i want to make it up to her.. i admit nung nasa 3rd year kami, medyo nawala closeness namin, pero andun parin yung friendship eh, and i care for this friend so much.
sa totoo nga lang, daig ko pa nawalan ng boyfriend. ganun naman siguro talaga pag close ka sa girl friend mo, right?
di ko talaga alam ang gagawin ko ngayon..
kung di ko na magagawang makalabas with her ngayong summer, kelan pa? sa june di ko na sya makikita.
i asked her too kung pwede ng Saturday, pero may gawain daw sila sa church nila nun. 

nalulungkot talaga ako ate xyla... i wanna cry... 

Hi Mau I could also help you 

If I were you sabihin mo na sa kanya lahat lahat ng reason na kung bakit gusto niyong magkasama at sabihin mo sa kanya ang totoong nararamdaman mo na nalaman mong lilipat na siya sa ibang school na magkakalayo na kayo. Just tell it to her lang na sana kahit isang araw man lang eh magawan niyo ng paraan para magbonding kayo nang husto as friends at iparamdam mo sa kanya na she is worth it para gawan mo ng effort about sa pagbonding niyo.  I just hope maging successful ito 

[ghirlhie]

Aww. I am so sorry to hear that. I think it would be better if you tell her what you feel about this situation para aware siya. Malay mo, magawan nya ng paraan. Don't assume kagad na she's making excuses since transferring to another school needs a lot of preparations. Just tell her your concerns. Okay? Update me na lang.

sinabi nya kasi na di sya pwede talaga kahit ngayong vacation kasi nung tuesday, nung lumabas kami, that naight magkatext kami, pinagalitan daw sya. so parang di sya pinapayagan lumabas talaga. takas lang daw talaga yun. then tinanong ko sya na kung pwede sya kahit sa saturday sa June, pero di rin pwede since may important part sya sa church nila around 3pm kaya in-ask ko kung pwede sya ng 10am-2pm, sabi naman nya di nya kayang gawan ng paraan. yun, nainis na ako. yun nalang yung possible way na pwede kaming magbond then ganun pa yung answers nya.. 

i'll try po ulit. thanks po ate xyla.

Hi Mau I could also help you 

If I were you sabihin mo na sa kanya lahat lahat ng reason na kung bakit gusto niyong magkasama at sabihin mo sa kanya ang totoong nararamdaman mo na nalaman mong lilipat na siya sa ibang school na magkakalayo na kayo. Just tell it to her lang na sana kahit isang araw man lang eh magawan niyo ng paraan para magbonding kayo nang husto as friends at iparamdam mo sa kanya na she is worth it para gawan mo ng effort about sa pagbonding niyo.  I just hope maging successful ito 

sinabi ko na sakanya. kaya lang, di kasi sya yung emo type na pag sinabi kong nalulungkot ako, ang sagot nya, "bakit naman? wag ka ngang malungkot dyan." i dunno, siguro it's her way to cheer me up. ewan. sa totoo lang kasi ayoko syang makausap right now, ayokong magkaroon kami ng communication ngayon, kasi parang papalapit kami sa end ng summer, na texting lang ang commu. parang, this time, gusto ko sya naman gumawa or mag-isip ng way para magkaron kami ng bonding time even for the last time. thanks po ate angel.

[x-y]

sinabi nya kasi na di sya pwede talaga kahit ngayong vacation kasi nung tuesday, nung lumabas kami, that naight magkatext kami, pinagalitan daw sya. so parang di sya pinapayagan lumabas talaga. takas lang daw talaga yun. then tinanong ko sya na kung pwede sya kahit sa saturday sa June, pero di rin pwede since may important part sya sa church nila around 3pm kaya in-ask ko kung pwede sya ng 10am-2pm, sabi naman nya di nya kayang gawan ng paraan. yun, nainis na ako. yun nalang yung possible way na pwede kaming magbond then ganun pa yung answers nya.. 

i'll try po ulit. thanks po ate xyla.

Try mo lang uli not to the extent na sobrang kulit naman.Baka kase di rin siya pinapayagan ng parents. If talagang di pwede, try to visit her na lang sa house niya. You can bond naman there without going out eh. Diba? If you want din, you can make something for her para naman mafeel niya how important she is to you.

[katduabe]

hello po! i just want to share my friendship problem with you.. sana po matulungan niyo po ako.. it's actually my bestfriend's problem.. it started when one of our "old friends" sent her a comment in friendster that is really disturbing.. minumura nila siya and saying so many bad things about her just because they both have the same picture of Avril Lavigne in friendster. after that, they continued sending comments to her until they sent me one.. di ko lang po maintindihan kung ano po kinalaman ko dun? then when i told my mom and my bestfriend's mom about that they were really angry.. but the worst part is they are blaming us of starting the fight and they won't admit that they have done that.. i've tried talking to them but it just got worse and now i don't know how to patch things up.. what would you think i should do?

[x-y]

hello po! i just want to share my friendship problem with you.. sana po matulungan niyo po ako.. it's actually my bestfriend's problem.. it started when one of our "old friends" sent her a comment in friendster that is really disturbing.. minumura nila siya and saying so many bad things about her just because they both have the same picture of Avril Lavigne in friendster. after that, they continued sending comments to her until they sent me one.. di ko lang po maintindihan kung ano po kinalaman ko dun? then when i told my mom and my bestfriend's mom about that they were really angry.. but the worst part is they are blaming us of starting the fight and they won't admit that they have done that.. i've tried talking to them but it just got worse and now i don't know how to patch things up.. what would you think i should do?

Well, if you guys didn't do anything bad to those people, just ignore them. Don't stoop down to their level. You see, there are really a lot of insecure people around us and we just have to accept the fact that they exist. Just don't mind them. Eventually, they will stop.

[katduabe]

thanks po sa advise!

[johnny_madrid]

Hi po ate Xyla and hi din po ate Angel,

Ang mga puting pating po ba ay pumipito ? Matagal na po kasing baumabagaba sa aking isipan ang itong tanong na ito.

Maraming salamat po.

[x-y]

Pag pipito kase sila, makakaingest sila ng water that might cause aspiration. Mamamatay na sila. Haha.

[johnny_madrid]

Pag pipito kase sila, makakaingest sila ng water that might cause aspiration. Mamamatay na sila. Haha.

Teka teka. I had to revise this post. I just realized hindi pwede mamatay kung maka ingest sila ng tubig kse water-borne creatures sila. So hindi sila pwede malunod. Diba ?

Ah kung pwede lang sana ma-dissect si Aquaman so we can figure out how those water creatures work anatomically diba ?

Eeeeewwwwww.

[nurz_aram]

hi i'm anne..just want to have friends bacause i think my friends already forgot me!..and i'm alone!!!huhhuh...

[x-y]

Hi Anne! I'm sure you'll meet a lot of friends here. Don't think you're alone because as the saying goes, No man is an island. =) Cheer up!

[Power_of_Angel]

Hi po ate Xyla and hi din po ate Angel,

Ang mga puting pating po ba ay pumipito ? Matagal na po kasing baumabagaba sa aking isipan ang itong tanong na ito.

Maraming salamat po.

Hindi ko alam kung pumipito sila pero ang alam ko lang pumuputak in the sense na pumuputak ang kanilang pagkagutom or kapag nakakita ng tao lalapain nila agad.