RAVEN KNIVES: LOVELIFE SPECIALIST

[mixx16]

Well, maybe I only want his attention. Hindi lang naman sa kanya 'to nangyari. I've met a lot of guys who are somehow like this.

Hindi naman siguro sa when he decided to move on e saka ako naghabol. When I gave him attention, it was the same amount of attention he gave me before nung hindi ko pa sha pinapansin. Mga after a week or two siguro nung nagkasama kami, bigla na lang shang hindi mashado nagpparamdam.

He knows naman na I don't like playing around. Kung ayaw ko talaga sa isang tao, ayoko. Kaya nga ako mejo natuwa sa kanya before kasi kahit sinabi ko nang i'm not interested e tuloy parin sha. Tas nung binigyan ko na nga sha ng pansin, ayun, sha naman ang nag lie low.


At least habang maaga, nawala na. Hindi yung tipong kung kelan may naddevelop na, saka mawawala. Masakit yun sa ulo.

[sacred cow]

^ Ahhh, yun naman pala.

I know this might sound counter productive, but how about asking him out...like coffee kayo or pasyal sa mall. One last effort. At least kung pumayag, alam mong may pag-asa pa, kung hindi...at least magkaka peace of mind ka na. You might say that he's the guy, dapat siya kasi magmumukha kang desperada...but being a guy myself experience has shown that kapag ayaw nung girl sa'yo tantanan mo na kasi it's only in the movies or rare cases where the girl would realize that she likes you too and IRL ayaw ng girl ng makulit. By being the one who approached or initiated contact with a girl, I believe that the guy has already done his part and the ball is now in the girl's court if she would reciprocate.

If you think that he's worth it and you both could be happy together, then go for it

[Raven knives]

hello! back from hiatus... and i can answer some relevant questions if any.

Yo! Thank you very much for the welcome, I appreciate it. Yes, back from a slumber-like hiatus. Hahaha. What's up?

Well, maybe I only want his attention. Hindi lang naman sa kanya 'to nangyari. I've met a lot of guys who are somehow like this.

Hindi naman siguro sa when he decided to move on e saka ako naghabol. When I gave him attention, it was the same amount of attention he gave me before nung hindi ko pa sha pinapansin. Mga after a week or two siguro nung nagkasama kami, bigla na lang shang hindi mashado nagpparamdam.

He knows naman na I don't like playing around. Kung ayaw ko talaga sa isang tao, ayoko. Kaya nga ako mejo natuwa sa kanya before kasi kahit sinabi ko nang i'm not interested e tuloy parin sha. Tas nung binigyan ko na nga sha ng pansin, ayun, sha naman ang nag lie low.


At least habang maaga, nawala na. Hindi yung tipong kung kelan may naddevelop na, saka mawawala. Masakit yun sa ulo.

Hey there Mixx, how are you? My sincerest apologies for just noticing your inquiry and for the late response. Anyway, as sacred cow mentioned, it actually depends on you if you still want to pursue the guy. Nowadays, it's perfectly acceptable for a girl to make the first move when it comes to guys as long as they do not feel uncomfortable doing so.

And there is nothing wrong with people wanting to experience the feeling of being desirable Who wouldn't? Anyway, the trick there is to just sit back and relax. As you mentioned, it's good that you're not yet to the point of having invested too much feelings towards the guy so it's not that frustrating. Who knows? The guy might come back at a later point in time. The guy might just be preoccupied with some personal stuff which may be the reason why he disappeared. If he is interested, he'll eventually get in touch with you again.

Just be patient. Treat this as an opportunity to hang out with other guys too.

Hope I was able to help you there.

Take care and have a nice day!

[mixx16]

@sacred cow and @Raven knives, thank you so much for answering. Kelangan ko lang ng pampatahimik ng kaluluwa ko, lol. Natahimik na naman ako. Hehe.

[Raven knives]

@sacred cow and @Raven knives, thank you so much for answering. Kelangan ko lang ng pampatahimik ng kaluluwa ko, lol. Natahimik na naman ako. Hehe.

Sounds great. If something bother's you again(hopefully not), just feel free to drop by and we'll sort it out.

Take care and have a nice day Mixx!

[mixx16]

I was having a talk with one of my guy friends tas nagkabiruan kami. Our conversation goes something like this:

Me: Antagal na nating magkakilala 'no?

Him: Oo nga e. Bakit kaya hinde tayo magka-talo? HAHAHA (pabiro)

Me: Ewan ko nga ba sayo. Single ka, single ako. Wala ka naman ginagawa. HAHAHA (pabiro din)

Him: Hindi talaga pwede e. Alam mo naman mangyayari satin pag tayo ang nagkasama. (pabiro parin)

Me: Pero seryoso, bakit ganun? Bakit ba walang nagtatagal na relationship sakin?

(Insert madaming kalokohan na palitan ng sagot here)

Him: Yung totoo? Para ka kasing lalaki na natrap sa katawan ng babae. Alam mo yung tipong kung ano yung kaya naming gawin na kalokohan, kaya mo rin. Cowgirl ka tapos e nagkataong nasobrahan. Sobrang aggressive.

Me: Uhmm.. Okay?


-then I changed the topic-


Sa totoo lang na-bother ako dun sa sagot nya. Hindi ko na pina-expound nung mga panahong yun kasi nabigla talaga ako nun. XD Alam ko naman kasi na mejo aggressive nga ako, pero, hindi ba talaga okay yun para sa inyong mga lalake? Nakakaloka naman kase. 

[Raven knives]

I was having a talk with one of my guy friends tas nagkabiruan kami. Our conversation goes something like this:

Me: Antagal na nating magkakilala 'no?

Him: Oo nga e. Bakit kaya hinde tayo magka-talo? HAHAHA (pabiro)

Me: Ewan ko nga ba sayo. Single ka, single ako. Wala ka naman ginagawa. HAHAHA (pabiro din)

Him: Hindi talaga pwede e. Alam mo naman mangyayari satin pag tayo ang nagkasama. (pabiro parin)

Me: Pero seryoso, bakit ganun? Bakit ba walang nagtatagal na relationship sakin?

(Insert madaming kalokohan na palitan ng sagot here)

Him: Yung totoo? Para ka kasing lalaki na natrap sa katawan ng babae. Alam mo yung tipong kung ano yung kaya naming gawin na kalokohan, kaya mo rin. Cowgirl ka tapos e nagkataong nasobrahan. Sobrang aggressive.

Me: Uhmm.. Okay?


-then I changed the topic-


Sa totoo lang na-bother ako dun sa sagot nya. Hindi ko na pina-expound nung mga panahong yun kasi nabigla talaga ako nun. XD Alam ko naman kasi na mejo aggressive nga ako, pero, hindi ba talaga okay yun para sa inyong mga lalake? Nakakaloka naman kase.

Hi Mixx, frankly speaking, men these days have various tastes when it comes to women. Generally, conservative or reserved guys are often comfortable with simple quiet girls while guys who are more open-minded or liberated should be comfortable with girls like you. There's nothing wrong with being aggressive. Its the year 2012. Girls being aggressive are accepted these days well, maybe not to some conservative filipino individuals. Regardless, it should not be a problem.

However, there are some guys who get the impression from girls who are too aggressive as girls who may not be ideal to be taken seriously. In fact, such a character reminds me of an acquaintance who, more or less, have the same sentiments. There are also some guys who feel that their character's are overwhelmed by the character of the aggressive girl.

I know that you were really caught off-guard by your friend's remark but then again, maybe you should ask that guy friend of yours what he meant. Of course, he should not just be the onyl person who you should be asking. That's only his perspective of you. Other people may have a different point of view.

Anyway, hope I was able to answer your inquiry.

Take care and have a nice day Mixx.