Overprotective Parents

[Kawaii_CV]

My parent are protective, but since they know I'm getting older (I'm 14), they let me have more privileges. But at times, they still see me as a 4 year old. They know I'll always be their little girl. 

[pnay_hotchick21]

don't rebel or try to 'force your wants' kase trust me when i say this, they are just trying to protect you. I know, y'all prolly hear that often but its true....Once you get the freedom, you'll know what i'm talking about. Going out with your friends is not a big fuss, you just have to grow out of it. :>

[siegred]

my dad is the one who's overprotective.
he always makes sure na dapat may
kasama ako sa pagpunta kung saan
pero yung mom ko, pwde kung ako lang
mag-isa.
 

[miss_di]

Both my parents are. When my mum and I went home to pinas, she doesn't allow me to wear sleeveless tops when I'm going out and she want my friends to pick me up in our house and even before we migrated, they don't leave me alone in our house, even if i'm already a fourth year in highschool. Now that I'm turning 18, I think they still won't allow me to go out and drink with friends and they still wont allow me to go out late, kahit mga 9pm.

[Nicz159]

my mom sort of ganyan. lahat na lang kailangan may kasama akong nakasunod sa likuran ko. kailangan niya akong bantayan and kailangan ko din siyang bantayan (ang nagbabantay sakin) gulo noh?

[rraawwrr]

dada is overprotective to me.
now, 4th year na ko, hatid sundo parin ako sa school ko >.<
masaklap pa, bawal gumala, bawal lumabas, wala pang cellphone

[inabee]

hindi sila overprotective, buti naman. hindi sila yung tipong bawal ako gabihin or something.

[pach]

unhealthy ang magkaron ng overprotective parents...

[yappi]

dont! dont! dont!
so many dont!!
my very protective dad but d great dad..

blah! blah! blah!
talking, nagging
its a natural things to every mom.
but the truth they were human machine with all their great job..
but still moms knows best..

we never know the love of r parents for us till we have become parents..

[HeR_RoYaL_HiGhNeSs]

when i was still living with my parents (til HS) they're overprotective. they wont allow me to commute, lagi dapat sundo na tipong paglabas mo ng gate nandun na ung car. minsan i envy my classmates when they go out after school. pag may parties, ganun din, hatid sundo and dapat kakilala nila ung pupuntahan ko. they wierdest thing they do- ung papasamahan ng yaya pag manonood ng movie. dati i cant understand them pero ngaun na im in college, un nmn ang namimiss ko since im far from home.

[pach]

dont! dont! dont!
so many dont!!
my very protective dad but d great dad..

blah! blah! blah!
talking, nagging
its a natural things to every mom.
but the truth they were human machine with all their great job..
but still moms knows best..

we never know the love of r parents for us till we have become parents..

nice.

na-inspire ako jan ah. 

[sportsGal002]

what shall i do? lagi na lang.. lahat ng gala ng friends ko, hindi ako nakakasama dahil ayaw nila ako payagan. minsan pinapayagan ako pero limited time! sobra! pero yung iba kong friends, anytime pwede! maski nga mag-sleep over yung friends ko dun sa bahay ng isang friend ko pwede sila e. pano naman ako? ako nalang lagi yung hindi pwede?

what do you think? should i confront them with my feelings? paano ba dapat ang maayos na paalam? any tips kung ano ang effective way sa pagpapaalam sa gimik?

THANKS GUYS! 

Naku. Parehas na parehas tayo ng situation. They're really overprotective lalo na yung Dad ko. Kapag di naman related sa school yung gagawin, di pwede lumabas. Pero kapag kilala nila kung sino yung mga makakasama ko, pumapayag naman sila.

Don't fret. Your parents just wants na walang masamang mangyari sa yo or anything....

[wooo_09]

unhealthy ang magkaron ng overprotective parents...

AGREE!! And lalo pa nagiging pasaway yung anak. Nag`rerebelde sa sobrang over`protective ng parents. Parang ako lang. Hahaha!  Ssshhh!!

[pach]

AGREE!! And lalo pa nagiging pasaway yung anak. Nag`rerebelde sa sobrang over`protective ng parents. Parang ako lang. Hahaha!  Ssshhh!!

^

o, nakikita nyo ba?

the psychological effects are very obvious 

[aieyqkca]

i'm in the same situation as you are. i think one of the things you could do is to talk to them and let them know of your side of the story. doing what you want or what you think is right doesn't necessarily mean you're being disrespectful to your parents. let me tell you this, your life is yours to live. your parents raised you well enough to know the difference between right and wrong. now use it and use it wisely.

there are things beyond our control, let's face it--bad things happen to good people too. that's what parents don't seem to understand sometimes. see, no matter where you are or who you're with or what time of the day it is, if something bad's gonna happen, it will happen.

sometimes all it takes is for you to stand your ground. don't be a push-over at all times. you are past the legal age and i'm sure you've gained wisdom all these years. you are not getting any younger, i think it's about time for you to go your own way for the most part.