Overprotective Parents

[roxyfrik]

what shall i do? lagi na lang.. lahat ng gala ng friends ko, hindi ako nakakasama dahil ayaw nila ako payagan. minsan pinapayagan ako pero limited time! sobra! pero yung iba kong friends, anytime pwede! maski nga mag-sleep over yung friends ko dun sa bahay ng isang friend ko pwede sila e. pano naman ako? ako nalang lagi yung hindi pwede?

what do you think? should i confront them with my feelings? paano ba dapat ang maayos na paalam? any tips kung ano ang effective way sa pagpapaalam sa gimik?

THANKS GUYS! 

[jodyy]

you're not alone. haha. ganyan din kasi
ang mom ko and grandma ko sa kin.
are you an only child? or nag-iisa ka lang bang
babae? ako kasi oo. i'm already 16 pero
pag 6:30 wala pa ko sa bahay, pagagalitan
na ko.

pero whenever i think about it, parang okay
lang kasi they just wanna make sure i'm safe.
pero there are times na, siyempre, nakakainis diba?
haha. minsan naman pinapayagan ako.

magpaalam ka ng maayos. text them pag nakarating
ka na sa pupuntahan mo. text them kapag
pauwi ka na. text them pag malapit ka na sa bahay.
para di sila masyadong mag-alala...

nakatulong ba ko?

[nicolerhema]

I know how it feels  ...... but everytime I think of it I will just think that its for my own good......hindi rin naman kasi natin sila masisisi eh.....

[iya]

yeah it's for your own good.i'm lucky my parents aren't that strict on me but kinakabahan din kasi sila lalo na if you're not with them especially sa panahon ngayon..

[erich_fan]

Same as my parents!  Pero still, I'm lucky because they are still alive. And remember that, concern lang sila sa'tin. Iba na daw kasi ang mga teenagers sa ngayong panahon.

[freakinsweetfreshie]

ako rin my parents treat me lyk Im 5 when Im suppose 2 wear black they say that color is not ryt for my age Im 13 y.o and they tell me that I can only go out alone when Im 15 y.o  thats why I keep secrets from em

[pink_swirls]

It's normal na over-protective ang parents mo sayo. . Love ka kasi nila. . That's it. . You make a letter nalang, kung di mo kaya sabihin ng personal. .

[wicKed buttErfLy]

That's OK, girl. I've been there, too. Are you in high school?

Coz my whole high school life, my parents were very overprotective. But now that I'm in college na and I live away from home, they're not. I guess when you're still living in your house you're like they're baby girl, so they tend to protect you a lot. They just want you to be safe and they find comfort in knowing that you're OK. What they do is best for you. But sometimes, if you feel like sumusobra na, just like I did, it would be best to tell them how you feel. You have to consider their side, though. Don't be insensitive to your parents' feelings. Remember: protecting you is one way they show that they love you.

[k-a-r-e-n]

I think all parents are like that especially if their kids are still underage. My parents used to do that to me, well not really. But they've became overprotective when I was 16. Believe me they've became overprotective just like that. coz i have guy friends like most of my friends are guys, and you know how it goes they all have their cars and stuff so, we usually been staying out soo late. So i think that's the reason. trust me, i couldn't go out, i have a curfew of 11 pm like who's still does that? But when I turned 18, everything's gone. Now I could go everywhere, anytime I want to. Everything went back just like before. like If somebody's going to call me to chill or whatever I'm there for sure. And the best part is my parents never calls me to check me up I could go home anytime i want to.

you know what, I think our parents still think that 16 and under is still to young to be on our own. I guess our parents just protects us from harm or from any decisions that we are making. They want to see us to be matured enough, so they could let us go with confidence that we'll be back home safely. You know what you should do? Just follow everything what your parents says to you. Don't fight back or be a rebel. Just follow them for the mean time. Coz trust me, for them that's one way of showing your maturity. That's what I did, then when i turned 17 my dad was the one pushing me to go out with my friends. I swear! so just obey your parents, besides you can't do anything about it anyways. right?

[roxyfrik]

today, i wasn't allowed to go to island cove with my friends. umiyak ako kanina sobra pero nung kinausap ako ng parents ko, dun ko na-realize na tama lahat ng sinabi especially yung kay k-a-r-e-n. ayun. hay. gumaan na pakiramdam ko! 

and thank you sa pagtulong skin! 

[me_mahself_and_i]

ganyang din parents ko.. sobrang protective.. feeling ko nga nawawala na social life ko eh.. di na ko nakakalabas.. feeling ko nasa kulungan ako eh.. nakakalabas lang ako pag kasama sila.. pag may papabili sila.. hay grabe..

[lizangeli]

nakakaasar talaga pag ganito. alam niyo yun? i know it's for my own good(or kung ano pang sinasabi na "love ka ksi nila" etc etc) pero kasi naman, nakakainis din naman kung ndi ka nila papayagan lumabas diba?? baka pag napuno na yung child, magrebelde pa 

[steffikaye]

Dati hindi ako pinapayagan ng parents ko na pumunta sa bahay ng kaibigan ko for fun, back when I was mga grade 5 or 6. Ang weird kasi ngayon pinapayagan na ako kahit ano. lol. ang sarap ng feeling na trusted ka ng parents mo. 

[darkangel_twentyfive]

hay. we have the same sitch. well not exactly. i just hate the fact that i still need to text my dad, FORCE, PLEASE, and tell him not to bring me home from school (or anywhere) anymore EVERYDAY. he 's soooo over-protective. my mom's being one na rin.. and i totally loathe them for that!!!

[jOesyL]

All parents who cares for their kid are over-protective but not to the point that you need their permission to pee at night. c'mon!