*Things you can't say to your parents~~~say it here!

[The Basketcase]

Mom,

Stop throwing a fit at dad all the time. No matter what you do, he works abroad to keep us living, yes you take care of us and all and I value that more than you can possibly know, but stop telling my siblings and I about his negativities. You keep telling us that "if only your dad had let me work in the first place we wouldn't be living in hell" and all that junk, if there's a will there's a way, you should have never let him disallow you from working if you wanted that.

He parties occasionally sure, but let the man relax for a while, do you want him dead of boredom or something? Stop doubting him, stop losing trust in him, for all I know you could be dancing with someone else too.

Stop being hypocritical. I honestly wanted to slap you for being hypocritical most of the time. You like gay people but you just can't see the point of them marrying. And I really don't like you for that. I'm not gay, but I just have a lot of feelings. And if you have something negative to say about them, stop saying it in front of my face. If you have nothing nice to say, say nothing at all, right?

When I answer back at you, it's because you have told us numerous times that we should answer back if we know we are right. Most of the times I know I am right, you may be my mother but you should let me tell my side of the story. Stop hurting me for being right, that is not right as my parent to hurt me just because you are my parent. Even though I'm younger than you are I can know certain things better than you do. Also, age has nothing to do with respect. Any normal human being should know that respect is earned. If this was a game then I'd say you have 1000 starter respect points from me just because you are my mother, but it is slowly lowering down.

I studied at UP Baguio because I wanted to know more people you share the same views as I do because I know you would never agree to my views. I try not to get transferred to Diliman because even though there are even more people that I could relate to there, it's so near where you are and you would never agree to anything we'd think. You were kind of asking for it though, you let me study in the UP system anyway, you had always known what image UP students have.

I am flawed, but you are too, we should both respect our views. Even though you are my parent, we are still equals.

I will tell you all of these but just not today.

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Dad,

I will always be on your side, not mom, because I don't like women. I respect them  and all as RENT had taught me, what is it about them? Can't live with them or without them. (lol, as if I'm not a woman..well I am still just a girl after all)

[emm :]]

Mom, pwedeng wag ka namang utos ng utos sakin? Kahit na ang lapit lapit na lang nung bagay kelangan mo pang iutos. Hindi naman sa tinatamad ako, pero nakakapikon lang kasi yun e. Lalo na pag meron lang inutos at nagawa ko na, kung kelan nakaupo na ako't lahat mag uutos ka nanaman. If possible, pwedeng minsanan mo na lang iutos lahat para hindi ako pabalik balik? Seryoso. Nakakapikon e. Isa pa, dun sa palagi mo akong pinagsasabihan na magpractice ng gawaing bahay. Marunong naman ako e, yun nga lang hindi niyo prinactice yun sakin habang bata pa ako kaya di ko ginagawa. Di ako sanay. Di ko kayo sinisisi, aight? Gusto ko sanang sabihin, kaya lang ang labas nun ako nanaman mali.

Dad, pwedeng pag nakikipagusap ka sakin ibahin mo tono mo? Alam ko wala akong karapatan sabihin yun pero nakakapikon rin kasi yung way ng pagsasalita mo. Kahit bata ako, sana naman may respeto ka rin sakin. Diba?

Sa inyong dalawa, college na ako sa pasukan. Please lang, ayoko na yung feeling niyo baby niyo pa ako. Seryoso, naiirita ako. Tanggapin niyo na lang na tumatanda (err, ayoko nung term ) na ako at pati kayo. Masyado niyong iniisip na baka di ko kaya, ganito, ganyan. Lahat ng tao nagkakamali. Please lang pabayaan niyo akong magkamali. Hindi ako perfect. At kelangan ko rin yun para matuto ako. Diba?

Last na to, I LOVE YOU BOTH! Hindi ako sweet kaya sorry.

[yscir]

i love her so much even though im a stubborn. 

[pristing]

Hey mom and dad. I haven't been coming to class last semester. I hated my classmates and my professors. I hate my course. And yeah, every year I spend on that course makes me think I don't want to be a lawyer mom wants me to be. By the way, accept that both of you make mistakes. I know I've made a lot but somehow I've been trying to make up for it. I don't expect for you two to get back together but please, try to make it easier for us. Love, Your Blacksheep.

[rmruda]

hahay..

ma,

sana marunong kang magmove on sa mga bagay-bagay.. kasi kahit anong gawin natin, wala na tayong magagawa sa mga nangyari na. and the attitude you have that I hate the most, is you always jump to conclusions witout even thinking properly and appropriately. Tapos, ikakalat mo na yung mga so-called conclusions mo na sometimes di naman pala totoo.

pa,

i thought you would changed. but that sentence had a "thought"  and a "would" pero hindi "see" at "have". pero kahit papaano, umaasa pa rin ako na mangyayari yun kahit ang chance ay 0.1%... I realized na kaya pala ako nasasaktan every time you treat me like a stranger, a no one; dahil kahit papaano mahal pa rin kita. Kahit masakit yung mga sinabi mo..


hahay..
despite, the fights, insults, a daughter would always want to see their parents happy.. 

[Ell_Oh_VEe_Ee]

Ma,

   Sorry and I love you, matagal ko na yang gustong sabihin eh. Sorry kung nasasagot man kita, pero di mo lang alam kung gano yung iniiyak ko pag nagagawa ko yun sa'yo. Ma, gagawin ko lahat ng makakaya ko makatapos ako ng college para matulungan ko na kayo ni Papa. AND pleeease stop saying "na baka mamatay ka ng maaga" REALLY, what would you feel if I would be the one saying that to you?
 
Ma, gustong-gusto kong mag-confide sa'yo pag nahihirapan ako..kapag nalulungkot ako...gusto kong i-comfort mo ko pag gustong-gusto kong umiyak, pero di ko magawa kasi nahihiya ako. Tulad ngayon...

Ma, sana kahit alam ko na para sayo mahina ako but PLEASE believe in me, na matatapos ko tong course na toh.

Pa,

2 years na lang.. ako na tutulong sa pamilya natin. Thank you, sobrang thank you sa lahat. Alam kong sobrang hirap diyan sa abroad. Salamat sa lahat ng pagtitiis, mabigyan lang kami ng magandang future.

Pa, alam ko pag nandito ka..di tayo masyado nagkakasundo. Pero sana alam mo na mahal na mahal na mahal kita.

Pa and Ma,

Sorry, Thank you and I love you

[cutie_lafforg17]

Mom and Dad,

I will never thank you enough for raising me and my siblings, for teaching me principles that helped me through the roughest times of my life. You made my life easy, I'm so lucky to still have you both and eat lunch/dinner together every weekend. Thank you for not giving up on me, for believing that I can succeed someday, I may not have achieve much now, but I know soon I will, thanks to your unlimited support. Sorry for not understanding you back then, but now, I understand why everything happened and why you were so strict back when I was still young. Again, thank you.

There is only 1 wish I want for my wedding and that's to walk the aisle with both of you by my side

Love you mommy dearest and daddy dearest! <3

[Toffee Apple]

Mom,

Why can't you ever understand that I'm not you? I don't like dressing up, or going shopping, or obsessing about hair products. Why can't you ever accept that I'm not your mini-me? Sure, I don't know moisturizing soap brands. What's wrong with that? It doesn't make me less of a female, now does it?

I want to tell you things. I want to tell you about what's going on in my life. But you know what? I can't. It's not because I'm incapable of it. The reason why is because I'm having a hard time. All I want is motherly advice yet all I get from you is textbook crap. And then you complain about me not opening up to you more.

Stop being so hypocritical and judgmental sometimes. It's why most people can't stand to be around you. I know because they told me. And as much as I hate to admit it I'm on their side. So you get mad at me just because I don't have a calculator. I wonder if it ever occurred to you that I'm trying my best to get one.

I hate when you make all of us feel so stupid. When we make terrible mistakes, you make us feel like we're worthless. Do you know who I feel the most for? Dad. Because whenever something happens to us, you always blame him. Why do you have to be so harsh all the time? You never let us share our opinions, it's always yours that we're subjected to listen to. You always act like our views are wrong. You may not know this, but Dad's had enough, too. He just loves you too much.

And do you know why I never bring my friends home? It's because I know you're going to judge them. You're going to start comparing me to my sister and say I'm not normal because we don't have sleepovers or go get our nails done together. You don't know how much it hurts that you think I can't make friends. Just because I don't talk about boys or go shopping with them, doesn't mean I don't know how to have fun. Excuse us if we prefer playing laser tag than sitting around all day giving each other makeovers. And yes, some of my friends are guys. Got a problem with that?

So I don't seem like the average girly-girl. I'm not a fan of the parlor, I get bored shopping, and my ideal afternoon with friends is going bowling or having pizza. Most of the stuff on my iPod isn't very mainstream. But please accept it. I hope it isn't too much to ask.
~*~*~*
Daddy,

I'll keep this short. Please stop being pissy about the smallest things all the time. And also, a computer does not take a second to shut down.

[emskey]

Ma, seryoso lang, tama naman si Daddy. I should be allowed to go home at 6 in the morning without you btching out cause it's safer to travel home in the morning with the sun rather than 2 in the morning kaya!

[vampiredoll]

Ma, Pa,
Bibilin ko yung Casual Vacancy kahit 900+++ sya. Okay lang gumastos sa libro, atleast di illegal yung pinaggagastusan ko. harhar 

[ChennieMellark]

sobrang nagtitimpi ako.. Bakit lagi nalang ako?..***t lang..

[jesuschrist_19]

I HATE YOU BOTH! 

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I really CAN'T say that to them dhl MAHAL q slang dalawa kht mdalas nila aqung masabon 
I know that they're doing that for good 



 

[candygirl10795]

hay naku papa ang aga-aga ang sungit-sungit mo! nakakahawa! sana pag badtrip ka sa isang bagay wag mo na kaming idamay pa!!!

[emskey]

Ma, Dad. Hindi nanaman ako umuwi kagabi, nagiinom nanaman ako. Haha. Tumambay pa ko kasama  mga stoners. Haha! Pero di naman ako nag-hits kagabi, yosi lang. Natulog lang din kami, kaya inumaga ako, di nag-alarm yung iPod eh.

[clodsstarrr]

Mommy, I love you. You know that very well. Gusto ko lang sabihin na, learn to decide for your own. Kausapin mo si Daddy. You can both decide for the family. Say what you feel. I'm just here. Tsaka, wag reklamo ng reklamo sa mga di ko magawa na tama. I get easil irritated ye know.

Daddy, minsan ang sungit mo... minsan ang korni. Intindihin mo si mommy. Wag masyadong magastos. Tsaka, let me live my life. I know how to protect myself so stop being so overprotective.

I love you both.