we are already teen but why they're still need to be strict to us???

[jessicacompuesto]

cause were not yet mature..

saka kung iisipin...

isipin mo n lang na hindi sila strict..

[hakuzen]

it's normal.  .
And they have to be that way parin kc, they know what's best for us.

[chinita.007]

wah.. gud question..!
ako rin tanong ko yan sa sarili ko.
nung bata kasi ako di sila ganun ka-strict pero ngayun halos di na ako makalabas..

[chesca88]

Sometimes, it's not that they don't trust you. It may be because as teens, we may look all grown up but we most of the time still don't know so much about the world. Your brother, being a male, may have been allowed to go out at night at a younger age so he was able to learn about different kinds of kalokohan that happen during night-outs. He wouldn't want his little sister getting into that kind of trouble, would he? Certainly not.

I grew up with an overprotective set of parents and I wasn't allowed to go on night-outs when I was younger too. Back then, I thought they were so unreasonable but when I got to college and got to mingle with all sorts of people, I realized that they were just right in protecting me. I learned how to enjoy life in the simplest ways, with just pure, clean fun.

Our raging teenage hormones and insatiable curiosity might get us into trouble. It takes a lot of maturity to say no to people who would ask you to do "cool" stuff. Usually, teens are still too vulnerable and would tend to experiment as if they are invincible.

Believe me, in the end, you'll thank your kuya. As for now, just listen and try to understand that he is just doing this for your own protection.

[shaznae]

alam kasi nila na iba na ang mga attitudes ng teens ngayon.. everyone can say kasi na "wala naman akong gagawing masama" blah blah.. pero still immature parin tayo... being 18 hindi mo parin pedeng sabihin sa kanila na nasa legal age na tayo... im 19 and the authorities() cant give their trust to me 100% ... before hindi ko sila maintindihan.. pero now hindi na rin ako nagrereklamo... ... i guess im being mature na kasi next year i will be on my 20s.. you have to understand na hindi lahat ng ginagawa ng kaibigan mo pede mong gawin.. maiintindihan mo din yan pag dumagdag pa yung age mo ... ... aww..

[dhie_mhie18082812]

love kasi nila tayo .. hindi nila tayo pwede pabayaan and responsibility nila tayo ... 

[jocriscastillo]

khit teen na tayo kaylangan parin natin nang guidance nlah and they just want the
best for us..

 

[cessy18]

because it is during time that we need their guidance more than when we were a kid.

during adolescence, people tend to be so curious about everything and try everything..

[rolune.hysteria]

yeah, i agree with most opinions..
kahit na 85 years old na ako (?!) i'm still their child..
it's their role to guide me, and being strict is one of the ways to make me a disciplined person..

imagine this, if your parents are not strict at all! as in, they let you do whatever..
your life's also be boring, right?

[aim_o29]

It's not that they don't trust us. They just want the best for us.  Ayaw lang siguro nila tayo mapahamak or something.

Kapag naging parent tayo, maybe we'll understand them.

[bemzy]

ofcourse, they just wanna be protective. pero if you think na kaya mo na sarili mo, tell them "kaya ko na, po"  but if you only think na kaya mo lang at di mo kaya panindigan, listen to them... kesa naman pagdating ng panahon masisisi ka pa.. tsk tsk tsk yun, dba?  kung sobrang strict na tlga, divert your attention and learn to make white lies sometimes..  just kidding.. do what you want, just know your limitations

[msjane]

I know you feel like you are grown enough but if you live under their roof, then you must follow their rules. simple
If you are financially stable and you got your own place, then your parents or your brother have no say to whatever you do.

[sassy_girl12]

because we are teens.

if you think about it, most people start f/cking up their lives during their teenage years.

this is the time that we think we're already grownup and that we know everything.
since our parents have been there they know what its like so concerned lang sila talaga ang ayaw nila mapasama tayo

[kannon]

sa totoo lang the more reason dapat maging strict kasi teen ka pa lang. Yung age na 15-18 ayan yung age na magulo pa ang utak at laging naghahanap ng social acceptance at adventure. Pansinin mo lahat ng natututong magsmoke or magdrink sa age na yan nahuhulog

Usually by Age 21 tsaka lang nagiging stable ang pagiisip with built in principles in life na

[PopPrincess8]

i believe what your kuya is doing will be for your own good. syempre, girls tayo diba? & baka iniiwasan lang niya na mangyari ang ayaw niyang mangyari. tulad lang kapag nabuntis, it's a big shame on their part. just let it be, sis. it's for your own good.