darkangel_twentyfive
I cannot give you a lengthy response at this moment,
but let me ask you some questions.
How old are you?
Does your father beat you up or your mom and other siblings?
Does he have any vices such as being a drunkard or hooked on drugs or gambling?
You see dear, maybe your father has his own problems, that he has to deal with. Besides, blood is thicker than water, We must not hate our parents unless they torture us. Why dont you read a Child Called It, and The Lost Boy as well as Sybil. I don't think any parent is worse than those presented in those books I recommended.
And when you are asked to do something (House chores) you must do them without thinking the way you do, because that is the only thing parents demand of their children, in return for providing you with a good education, shelter, a whole range of clothing, and other extras in our life. Doing chores is not a big deal, it will not keep you away from the things you like doing, so instead of being grumpy when you are told to do something, why don't you take initiative, and do such chores without needing to be told. You live under your parents house and you must follow their rules, and since you are a part of that family - you must contribute to it by at least doing some menial chores, you are not expected to pay the bills, so these small tasks are the least you can do.
About your dad, maybe he has a lot of regrets you do not know about, and maybe he just does not know how to properly express his anger and frustration - and the only way he knows is to show dominance and machismo by Cursing you and saying bad words.
Do not respond badly to your father because it will just aggravate the situation. Let him blow off steam without you screaming or answering back to him, I am sure he works hard to provide for you and your mom, even if you do not believe he does.
I don't think he'd react that way to you, if you do not provoke him, or do not deserve to be scolded, I mean, you did say you were a maldita, so that gives him reason to say things to you (although it may not be right either, and that does not justify his harsh words) but still, what I am trying to say is, if you bend, and if you show that your nice, and act in a way that he has no reason to criticize you or discipline you, then maybe things won't be as bad.
Do not compare you parents to your friends parents, because each parent, and parenting skills are different amongst your parents and your friends parents, no two parents can be exactly alike, besides you never know either what truly happens with your friends family, they may be also hiding their problems. Just because people seem happy and show smiles and laugh all the time,doesn't mean that they are troubled, some are just more of complainers than others.
And belive me, there are people who are worse of than you are. You are not the girl with the Worst Daddy.
