Kung kayo si Guy, anong mararamdaman ninyo?

[yurilovetamahome]

This friend of mine, may crush siya dun sa lalaki.. mga 5 years Walang kamuang muang yung guy. Tapos mga 2 years ang tanda samin. Ngayon.. gusto parin niya talaga yung guy.

Hindi siya magkabf dahil yun nga ang gusto niya.

Tapos one time, may nagsabi daw dun sa guy na malaki ang pagkagusto nitong si friend kay guy. [rumor lang ata???] Sabi nung guy 'eh?' tapos nagbiro daw siya, sabi 'yun *name of his friend* Iyo na lang!'



Kung kayo si guy.. at nalaman niyo na ganon pala kayo katagal kagusto ni girl [5 yrs] anong mararamdama niyo?




Answer ko: Ako, hahanga ako. At macucurious, kasi.. mapapaisip ako. Ano bang meron sakin at nagustuhan ako nitong taong to. And why do it takes 5 years? Ang tagal kaya. Atsaka, hindi naman namin kilala ang isa't isa. 

Pero sa character nung guy.. parang wala lang sa kanya. Atsaka yung guy, suplado daw talaga sa mga babae. Pili lang yung kinakausap niayng babae




PLEASE!!! COMMENT! I NEED IT!
kailangan din bang tumigil nung girl? o ipaglalaban niya yung feelings niya. Sa puntong halos yun na ang hingin niya kay god

[mikaayre]

kung ako yung lalaki, magtataka ako kasi iisipin ko kung ano bang meron sakin na nagustuhan niya. tapos pag nag sink in na yung info na yun malamang matutuwa ako.. and later on baka tumaas ego level ko.

malakas magpataas ng ego level yung nalaman mo na five years ka nang gusto ng isang tao. pero depende sa tao yun kung magpapadala sa ego niya o hindi. may mafflatter lang pero hindi naman yumayabang. meron namang halos pumutok na yung ulo sa sobrang kayabangan.

di ko masabi kung ano talagang stand ng guy sa nangyari, but if i were you i would give him the benefit of the doubt. may mga tao kasi na iilang tao lang yung kinakausap at katulad nga ng sinabi mo, piling tao lang ng opposite sex yung kinakausap niya. if that's the case, he might be "suplado" or just being "shy". ganyan din kasi ako  eh. i don't talk to the opposite sex that much unless needed, but that doesn't mean that I'm a snob.

baka may issue lang siya sa girls. tsaka kung natutuwa man siya sa news na yun sa tingin mo ba ipapahalata niya sa inyo na natutuwa siya?

kung hindi man iapproach nung guy yung friend mo, its either ayaw lang niyang lumabas na nagttake advantage sa situation, wala siyang pakialam, or he finds your friend creepy. or maybe he just doesn't know what to do in this situation that is why he keeps his distance.

as for your friend, its either a severe case of admiration or just a case of a girl falling in love with a guy. di ko lang sure. kasi five years na eh. a mere crush wouldn't last that long. and this guy that you are talking about is the reason why your friend cant get a boyfriend. aba ineng malala na yan!

so anong balak niya? ang maghabol? di naman kaya siya magmukhang desperada nun? hindi challenging yun kung sakaling idate siya nung guy. effortless. parang wala lang. i don't want to sound prejudicial about guys but based on my friend's stories, guys tend to like girls who like them. alam mo yun? yung liligawan ka lang ng lalaki kasi alam niyang may gusto ka sa kaniya. courting span shortened. easy way to get a gf. some (?) most (?) guys court girls who like them para sure na hindi sila mababasted. takot sa rejection kumabaga.

again, it depends on the mindset of the guy. your friend could continue admiring him from afar, or take the matters in her own hands and approach him, but it depends on the guy if he will accept or reject her.

tsaka anong silbi ng pagppray niya kung wala naman siyang ginagawa? five years wasted.

but i think that its better that the guy doesn't show any reactions. kesa naman yumabang siya at at lumabas ang mean side niya. pero malay natin, isang araw tabihan na lang ni guy si friend mo... with a good intent of course.

[tinaaa]

there are too many sides for this situation.

Is the guy, how you say, popular?  Or is he the type na "hindi naman, ayos lang."?  Or, he's popular but he's a snob. OR, he's a snob, but really not that popular. Or, popular but nice.

See? Masiyadong complicated.  IF he is the popular type (tapos snob, according to you "Pili lang ang kinaka-usap niyang girl) then... honestly, wala na lang sakin yun. I mean, come on.  I'm a guy, girls like me, I'm popular, another girl wanting me would make no difference.  Well, except if i like her, right?

But, if he's the type na hindi popular tas hindi naman habulin ng chiks, eh di magtataka ako, malamang.  But it's kind of unfair.  5 years?  Grabe, tagal nun ah.  If i was the guy, don't i have the right to know?  Pero if he looks like he doesn't give a sh!t about it, then he probably don't.

For your friend na nga lang.  She should really do something about it na.  I mean, COME ON! 5 years!?  Obsession na yan 'te.  Dalawa lang naman pwede niyang gawin eh, Kalimutan siya o kuhanin siya.  Her choice.  She should take chances.

Look who's talking. Haha.  All the best to your friend.

[Hanzo23]

I'd be flattered, and will definitely check the girl out.

If type ko yung girl, then liligawan ko, if not, I'd still be friends with her.

I've been in that situation before, so I can relate to that feeling.

[pach]

Kung kayo si guy.. at nalaman niyo na ganon pala kayo katagal kagusto ni girl [5 yrs] anong mararamdama niyo?

depende.

[decentspirit]

una maflaflatter ako. sunod, maweweirdohan kasi ang tagal ng 5 years, ano ginagawa nya during those years, stalking me? haha!

[lyssapearl]

wow. 5 years
ang daming pwedeng maging reaction.
pero kung ako yung guy, siyempre matutuwa
nman. limang taon yun noh. lalo na kung maganda yung girl.
maiisip ko gnun na ba ako kagwapo
pero baka kasi naman sikat yung guy at marami nang girls na humahanga sa kanya na more than 5 years so baka bale wala lang sa kanya yun, baka sanay na o kaya wala talaga siyang pakielam sa mga tao sa paligid niya