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My boyfriend and I broke up last month. He currently has a new girlfriend, but he still texts ands asks how I am. I once admitted to him that I still love him, and he confessed that he still feels the same way! Should I fight for him or just let him go?—Gia, 15
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- 1. gracee_08 says:
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ano b ung rison ng break up nyo...? if you still love each other then bkit kau ngbreak..? if u think he's the 1 4u den fyt 4 him...
August 23, 2006 at 2:33 pm - 2. mouneth says:
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4 me i think u must fight 4 him hndi mo kc alam bka sya ung ryt guy 4 u tps in the end u will just suffer dba!?
August 23, 2006 at 1:58 pm - 3. jairene says:
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ano kb?! kung luv moh xa and luv kp rn nia?! bkt xa mgha2nap ng bgong gf? pero if u rili luv him dat much den fyt 4 him!! kc ndi oa ung gnun.. ang swit nga nun eh.. wag kang mgpadla s peer pressure! gudluck gurl!!!
August 23, 2006 at 2:41 pm - 4. eunice says:
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...maybe he found you in his current girlfriend, if you both love each other, then do whatever makes you happy, than having regrets in the end...
August 23, 2006 at 3:21 pm - 5. kimmy swirls says:
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ang tanong bkt kau ngbreak?.. how stupid of him namn to break up with you kc ngaun nya pa na realize na love ka nya.. hmm.. you should fight for him if you really super duper love him..
August 23, 2006 at 4:03 pm - 6. ladyblu says:
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kng mahal k prin ña alam ña kung ano ung dapat gwin kc he stil have a gf peo mahal ka prin ña..khit mahal u xa wag mo hyann na 2 kaung mhal ña.
August 23, 2006 at 4:53 pm - 7. privateyssa says:
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know wt i think u shud fyt 4 him gurl..after ol u two both admit dat u stil luv ich oder, diz is 1 thing i'l tel u, dnt miss diz chance of getting him bak coz for sure u'l regret it in d end,, dtz it,, u go gurl.. mwah!
August 23, 2006 at 5:27 pm - 8. bernadette anne says:
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alam moh pagsinaktan ka nya hilahin moh sya den say nice game tapos bilang sapak sa mukha and sabihin moh
break na tau den tapos magkikipagbilikan kau de nica game nga!!haha!
August 23, 2006 at 5:59 pm - 9. seven says:
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FIGHT FOR HIM. (:
August 24, 2006 at 12:49 am - 10. andrea says:
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if u really love him den fight for him. y did u break up if u feel da same thing with each other? but u know wat u should know wat u have to do cuz ur da only one knowing how u feel about him. u shuld think about it. juzt dont do something dat u will regret 4evah. know one knows but u guys mite b ment for each other. gudluck gurl!
August 24, 2006 at 1:04 pm - 11. leslie says:
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everyone has the right to be loved and to be in loved!if the both of you still have that deep feeling,ofcourse you need to fight for it..so girl if i wer you go for it..you both deserve it..
August 24, 2006 at 3:16 pm - 12. peanut_85 says:
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i guess the best thing to do with your situation now is to stop replying him. baka niloloko k lng nya, as if nmn he luvs u and besides wake up gurl..may gf na sya so wats d point of letting u know dat he stil luvs u??? baka ng take advantage lng sya coz u admit to him that u luv him. gurl... wake up! dont make ur life ruined by him. but if he truly loves u, he has to do somthing wd his gf bu remember, may tao kaung masasagasaan if u will continue wat u fell... anywyz if kau talaga... NO MATTER WHAT WILL HAPPEN, LOVE WILL MAKE A WAY!.. OKIES???
August 24, 2006 at 7:04 pm - 13. lhei says:
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if u still love each other..why kayo nag break?...if i wer u i'll think about it muna coz u said na may gf na xa,ryt?..so qng ganon..may tao kayo na masasaktan..pero if u both feel nman na u still love each other..pag usapan nyo muna and then gawin nyo ung gusto nyo tlga gawin..PERO i still believe in the saying na QNG KAYO,KAYO TLGA...so qng di man kayo ngayon...maybe in the near future eh magiging kayo pa rin if U R REALLY MEANT TO BE...
August 24, 2006 at 11:55 pm - 14. Inna and Jennifer says:
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parang he's not worth it, kasi if he really loves you bakit siya kumuha ng bagong victim... mamaya iwanan ka niya ulit tapos sasabihin lang niya na mahal ka parin niya... but then again, pwede din kayo magkabalikan if he courts you again... make him work gurl... and if talagang meant to be kayo, edi, meant to be kayo... :)
August 25, 2006 at 9:03 am - 15. fourlovesfivesomuch says:
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bkt b ksi kau na break? yan tuloy.. nkhnap ng iba..
August 25, 2006 at 11:25 am - 16. Danielle says:
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Gurfriend, it's not bad to fall inlove with the guy you used to date before. It is complicated though because of his "taken" situation. Before you rush into things, you have to really think and confirm your true feelings. If you really have strong feelings for him and sure of that, then go fight for him gurl. But if you're not, just be real and face the fact that you guys are not meant to be together. You don't wanna break the other gurls heart if you ain't sincere about it. Right? Good luck on that!
August 26, 2006 at 6:18 am - 17. PATricia says:
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e what if mtgal n kaung wla pro ngpprmdm prn un guy pro un nga may bgo n xang gurl.. does it still count na u have to fyt 4 him kht alm mong mron n xang iba pro alm mo dn n mhal kpa nia? and to think u really know na he's the ONE 4 u?
August 26, 2006 at 12:22 pm - 18. ellesor_ybab says:
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mahal ka nga nia.. malay ba naten kung mas mahal nia ung gurl nia ngaun.. u shud move on gurl dahil xa nga gumawa na ng move ehh.. y shud u w8 4 him?? xa lng un gurl.. pareho lng tau ng sitwaxon/..
August 26, 2006 at 12:34 pm - 19. 16rEigNe says:
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there are lots of things in this wirld that is not really for us..
just wait for your mr. right..
he is not worth it!.. the thing is, he is just flirting with you for he's already taken.. if ur going to fight for that feelings you'll end up being slut!
August 26, 2006 at 7:54 pm - 20. cute says:
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grabeh.. wawa naman un bagong gf nia.. bkit pa kc kau nag break.. un guy parang 2timer narn kung nagttxt pa kau..
August 27, 2006 at 12:28 pm - 21. jammy says:
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If you feel that he`s still the ONE, then you go girl, get up there and fight for him. Love is everything. It`s either you love him, or you hate him. From reading this, I think you love him, and he feels the same way. He loves you, too. If you feel that it`s the right time to go up there and fight for yourself, then I think you should do it. (:
Good luck, hun. =]
August 27, 2006 at 5:42 pm - 22. cathleen says:
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haay...i agree with gracee..bkit nga ba?..npag-usapan nyo ba ng maaus ang mga bgay2?
August 27, 2006 at 7:39 pm - 23. bobsonlady033 says:
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dapat u should not be fooled again.. if he really loves you, he shouldn't have left u in the first place db?..
August 28, 2006 at 7:09 pm - 24. irene=] says:
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if you still love him..Why not??diba?? but if he has a girlfriend thats not good,coz his not loyal to her current girlfriend..if he still want you back,..he should make the move to win you back.. just be true to yourself if you still love him too..
August 28, 2006 at 7:41 pm - 25. sayra says:
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that is not good... he has a gf... if you really want to be him again, be sure he has no romantic relationship with other girls... this is my pa-sweet answer...
sa totoo lang, di sya kapanipaniwala... kung mahal ka talaga nia dapat kayo ang magkasama... forget him...
August 29, 2006 at 7:47 pm - 26. lenlen says:
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if he still love you pah..why did he court his current gf? eh di ibig sabihin nun mahal din niya gf niya...hindi lang ikaw masasakyan..ok lang sana na magka-second chance pero may gf pa siya eh...move-on ka nah...
August 31, 2006 at 8:09 am - 27. chinnie says:
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fyt 4 him.. ask him if he still luvs u kc ngttxt p xa sau.. kng d k na nya luv, he'll not waste his tym na kamustahin ka...
August 31, 2006 at 8:47 am - 28. thearvin says:
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if you love him and he still loves you and then go!!!! maybe you are really meant for each other....
August 31, 2006 at 1:35 pm - 29. bloodz_chick says:
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she has anader gurl na eh,pra la lng ginagawang t*ng* nyan!!!! wag kang paloko! baka 2 timer yan,cge ka!!!! hehe,di tlaga,serious.....kung di na kau mazaya,giv up nyo nlng,per qng fellin nyo,mahal nyo pa ang isat isa,wel den,dnt waste tym coz lyf is too short. go 4 it,pero kailangan,magng hnest kau se isng gurl.. Un lng kc mey mahaba na eh... hehe,til nx tym.....gud luck sa n u.......^_^
August 31, 2006 at 11:10 pm - 30. joyce says:
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i don't think fighting for him is a good idea.he should be the one to fight for you kc xa ung my current g.f. if he really loves you, he'll find a way para magng kau ul8.
September 1, 2006 at 6:23 pm - 31. czanthea says:
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maybe he's just playing around and it's up to you if you want to be one of he's TOYS...i think it's pathetic if he said he still loves you considering the fact that he has a gf already...
September 2, 2006 at 10:47 am - 32. emjay says:
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dapat ipaglaban ka rin niya..
i mean,, iwan niya na gf niya..
September 3, 2006 at 1:32 pm - 33. ishie says:
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what happend ba? just let him go! kz mahirap umasa sa wla! tsaka my gurlfrend n xa! npalitan kna nya kaagad! kya kung npalitan kna nya! plitan m n din xa kz your just wasting your time for him!!!
September 5, 2006 at 8:09 am - 34. angelic kiez says:
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mag heart to heart talk dapat kayo...ahm, ganyan din kasi ako ngayon...he sed na may filings pa din xa skin...and i sed "i love him so much..." nanligaw xa skin dati, at may mangyaring di maganda so hindi nagtagal we ended up with broken hearts (hindi naging kami..)ngayon, 9 months n kong naghihintay sa knya..nagkagf xa but they told me n panakaip butas lng daw yung girl...kaya ngayon, payo ko sayo...kausapin mo xa at sabihin mo sa knya lahat lahat ng nararamdaman mo...then after that, let thiings work out para sa inyo...
September 5, 2006 at 8:34 pm - 35. baby_chick1129 says:
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Sometimes, even if you really love each other, it would be much better for the both of you to stay as friends and not be in a relationship. Why did you break up? Was it because you always had misunderstandings that you both couldn't take anymore? Or was it because you don't love each other anymore? Then talk to him. Talk to him about why you two broke up. Then talk to him, asking if you both want to try again. If it works out, then good. If not, then you're not meant for each other...
September 6, 2006 at 11:30 am - 36. Billah, Brunei says:
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Hye Gia.. i dun understand what are the other people saying becoz im not filipino.. well, for me, i think you should let him go.. you can find another guy.. he will not coming back to you eventhough you wait him for a long time.. he will loves his new gf more than he loves you.. even though he said that he does loves you now.. but, i think you better let him go before he hurts you alot.. coz i had this situation before.. i just want to give you some advices.. :)
September 6, 2006 at 10:40 pm - 37. mj says:
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i also xperienced that kind of stuff bt wat i did s i let him go.bt u know wat ang hirap kasi my bb na kami.bt kahit minsan d ko xa dnis2rbo.bt he s dn txtng me..boys r boys....
September 7, 2006 at 8:09 pm - 38. madjhe07 says:
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woi just let him go im sure you deserve someone else batter than him
September 8, 2006 at 12:35 pm - 39. amaia says:
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ngekz,..magising ka nga sa katotohanan,..marami pang lalaki sa mundo,..if i were you i will let him go,..give naman yourself some pride,..
September 8, 2006 at 4:05 pm - 40. emily says:
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gurl!naexperience ko na yan.un x ko niloko ako.habang kami, my gf pala xa bago sakin.ngaun na nalaman ko, i let him go.nung tym na palang narealize na mas mahal daw nia ako sa gf nia pero wala din xa ginagawa sa current gf nia tho cnsabi nia na bbreakan nia na pero hindi pa.looks like my x and your x are just finding someone as a reserve. hirap ibalik ang trust. ryt now i look stupid bec despite na niloko ako, i still hav strong filings for him.pero my gf pa xa. he is being unfaithful and un loyal sa current gf nia..
September 9, 2006 at 2:31 pm - 41. emily says:
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hey ako uli toh..yah..tama,guys will be guys.they could say what they want to say.BUT they have to prove it. see if he is saying the truth that he still loves you. one proof na hindi is that he still is attached to his current gF.alam ko masakit diba?parang, malay ba natin kung gano nia ka mahal ung isa.sabihin na natin na mahal ka nia pero malay natin kung sino ang mas matimbang.keep your doors open for him pero wag mo xa maxado hintayin. dont get too attached more than what he is ryt now for you..goodluck!
September 9, 2006 at 2:37 pm - 42. emily o. says:
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make sure na hindi lang text ang ginagawa nia sayo to show that he is really sincere na mahal kpa nia.like ung sakin, aside from he texts me everyday, he always finds chempo when he can see me. he talks to his friends just to help him talk to me. he says he is going to break up with his current gf(ewan ko dito), he comes to my debut kahit di xa invited, he cried sa friend nia, he tries to make promise na xa nalang daw ang bibili ng september issue ng Candy ko.sabi ko wag na. he says he loves me pero pinagbawalan ko xa sabihin un saakin kc my gf pa xa. although mali ang gnwa ng x natin...sincerity is the key.be observant.wag padala sa mga sinasabi lang.kasi dati napadala ako.sabi nia di nia ako lolokohin, pero tingnan mo ngaun,sa simulat simula niloko pala ako.
September 9, 2006 at 2:45 pm - 43. missunwantedsix says:
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if he feels the same way as you do, then why'd he have a new girl? para pang takip? kung nakaka.awa ka na nga, cgro mas nakaka.awa pa yung "new" girl nya.. kasi di pala nya love itong new gf nya.. kung ako sayo, i let go mo nlang xa.. ask lang ha? who broke up with who? you to him? or him to you? let go nalang sis.. nakaka.awa naman rin yung new gf nya kung pangtakip lng ang kita nya sa sarili nya.. anyways, dami pa nmang guys dito sa world that could really show you what love really is.. dbah? =) it's your choice..
September 11, 2006 at 12:49 pm - 44. simplebea says:
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he's not worth it.. if he has sum1 new then it only means that you have to move on and look for sum1 else better than him.. he said he still loves you?..oh!... all time boy's favorite lines... don't you think saying he still loves you is cheating to his new girl?..he might done it with you as well.. think it over girl!..
September 13, 2006 at 11:43 am - 45. sheila mercado says:
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oo....wag ka na jan sa bf mo!
September 13, 2006 at 1:38 pm - 46. jimsy says:
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lam mo siZzsy, wer just d shem..kxo think bout this...he feels the same peo may gf xa??asUzz VOLLa lng eon sizzy...Playing Safe...Har har
September 14, 2006 at 4:38 pm - 47. dWaiNNe KhArLa says:
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let go gurL...
September 14, 2006 at 4:48 pm - 48. nHyPi says:
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if he stil luvs u then he has gf alredy? tink about it grl. mybe he sed dat 4u to hold on. pro nde hirp nmn umasa s sbi lng nia. e beta tink grl. if he truly luvs u, i know he'l cum bak no matr how long uve bin seprted. mhirap umasa pro i ges u have 2 mve on grl...
September 16, 2006 at 12:53 pm - 49. babyaimz says:
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You have to consider that he has a new gf now. It makes me feel that the new gf is just a rebound. Now if he still loves you and you feel the same way. He should do something about it. Otherwise his new gf would get hurt and that's unfair.
September 20, 2006 at 7:32 pm - 50. pjayzzz says:
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hey gurl,, we both have the same situation.. enweiz, advice ko lng sau.. juz go on with ur life.. if he rili loves u,, di cia mag ggf agd db? instead of havn u back, nag gf pa cia agd2.. duh? move on gurl! know wat? iv been dating better guyz dan him.. and i know na mka2kita ka din ng guy dat'z more deserving of ur love.. di cia marunong pkala2ke! =P dvah?! ang mskit pa nian eh pag pngpalit ka sa ..ehem.. tpos aawayn ka pa ng new gf nia.. den pag ngkaharap2 kaung 3 bka ipahiya ka lng juz wat iv experienced.. my ex told me dat he still loves me pero may gf na cia den nun inaway ako ng gf nia.. todo deny cia.. oh eh ano twg dun db?
September 21, 2006 at 1:46 am - 51. pjayzzz says:
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he's bein too selfish,,lam mo un? but hav u guyz talked sincerely? and itz better cgro kun nde through txt un paguusp nio kc mas okei pag in person,ryt? enweiz, itz juz an advice.. think about it.. let it go gurl! let him feel what he has juz lost!
September 21, 2006 at 1:57 am - 52. maxine;) says:
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nah. let go. dont ever let him fool you. if he do rily love you, den, bkt may gf xa? mmh. think about that! he's not worth if youre goin 2 fight 4 him. BUT!! f he is really sincere, well. go on with ur lyf .. 8s ur decision. tke time to think.. owryt?!! tc! =)
September 25, 2006 at 4:39 pm - 53. aubrey says:
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kaylangan malaman mo muna or ipaalam nya na muna sa u kung 22o ngang luv ka pa nya.. kasi malay mo di ba, his not telln u d truth tapos gusto ka lang pala nya saktan lalo n kung mabigat ung reason ng break up nyo... den if u found out na luv ka pa rin nya as LOVE tlaga... den fyt for him i know on the other hand my masasaktan pa rin let the guy explain to the new gf kung ano talaga ang lagay ng relationship nilang 2 na kaw talaga ang pinaka love nya... basta wag kang papayag n 2 kau... kpag 2 kaung pnili nya, pwes mag1 nalang cya noh... da ba!!!!! girl power!
September 28, 2006 at 12:00 pm - 54. alex says:
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c'mon...find another one...sure he still loves you..but hey..there are still many guys out there who'll not just love you but also fight for your love
September 28, 2006 at 11:12 pm - 55. ChinesePinay_Leung18 says:
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kailan nya ba sinabi sayo na love ka pa rin nya? kung sinabi nya yun kahit may gf na sya, maybe he's telling the truth kasi baka panakip butas nya lang yung girl para makalimutan ka, pero ang totoo, mahal ka pa rin nya.
September 29, 2006 at 1:51 pm - 56. kheyehm says:
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just do whatever makes you happy
October 21, 2006 at 9:11 pm - 57. jenn_rhoda16 says:
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uhm if you both still have that feelings.. then fight for it... go for the gold.. hehe,
November 7, 2006 at 1:31 pm - 58. francine_101 says:
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just fiight for it! maybe your bf's other gf likes another guy too....... so go! stand up for LOVE!
November 20, 2006 at 12:08 pm - 59. 59.mikah says:
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bkit b kau ngbreak..?
wg k muna manwla s cnbi niang he feels the same way too.. kz, bkt xa ngkron ulit ng gf kung he still loves u..?
pero d m0h rn mssbi yn eh..
don't expect too much muna na mgkkblikan kau khit cnbi niang mhal k nia kz ang cnbi lng nia he feels the same way too.. ala nman xang cnbing bblik p xa sau..
February 18, 2007 at 5:42 pm - 60. orange says:
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he should mean what he says.. if he still loves you.. let him prove it and see if he's sincere with it. go for a man of deeds rather than a man of words..
May 24, 2007 at 6:15 pm - 61. zigan says:
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waahhh.. i was in the same situation...*sorta* but i decided to let him go... 'cOz if he really do stil luv me... he would know wat to do... i won't have to tell him anything...
July 21, 2007 at 2:59 pm - 62. mizfloy says:
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if the guy really lovez u den he must do d next move.. you've done your part, you've given d *ssurance dat u still luv him.. so, derz no rison 4 him 2b afraid 2 fyt 4u if he stil feels dsame..
August 18, 2007 at 12:54 am - 63. janyawish says:
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kung mahal ka talaga nung guy kaya niyang iwan ung present girlfriend niya para balikan ka.
January 30, 2008 at 9:19 pm - 64. kuLetzky says:
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wake up gurl!
March 13, 2008 at 8:58 pm - 65. erisato says:
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kung mahal ka nya..bkit pa sya maghahanap ng iba..at bilis mkahanap.. move on..
May 9, 2008 at 11:05 am - 66. _yss_ says:
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i think 2nd chances are useless bcuz he just can't change..
June 6, 2008 at 1:09 pm - 67. peace20 says:
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