Comments on: Which one are you? http://www.candymag.com/katie/2007/05/15/which-one-are-you/ out with the old, in with the new Thu, 22 May 2008 20:03:01 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2.1 By: alekx http://www.candymag.com/katie/2007/05/15/which-one-are-you/#comment-2256 alekx Mon, 25 Feb 2008 04:12:26 +0000 http://www.candymag.com/katie/2007/05/15/which-one-are-you/#comment-2256 neither... i wouldn't know because I have never been in a relationship and if ever I'll be then I'd be the girl who humbles herself to save the one she loves XD neither… i wouldn’t know because I have never been in a relationship and if ever I’ll be then I’d be the girl who humbles herself to save the one she loves XD

]]> By: vahjoi http://www.candymag.com/katie/2007/05/15/which-one-are-you/#comment-2251 vahjoi Thu, 21 Feb 2008 03:39:40 +0000 http://www.candymag.com/katie/2007/05/15/which-one-are-you/#comment-2251 know what base on my own experience im the one who handels the relationship but sometimes im the one who first give up ,,, because as we all know there's a reason in every decision we made... know what base on my own experience im the one who handels the relationship but sometimes im the one who first give up ,,, because as we all know there’s a reason in every decision we made…

]]> By: peaches&cream http://www.candymag.com/katie/2007/05/15/which-one-are-you/#comment-2233 peaches&cream Mon, 11 Feb 2008 18:20:40 +0000 http://www.candymag.com/katie/2007/05/15/which-one-are-you/#comment-2233 id rather be the humble one..for the simplest reason of not regreting on the pursay relationship... id rather be the humble one..for the simplest reason of not regreting on the pursay relationship…

]]> By: ika http://www.candymag.com/katie/2007/05/15/which-one-are-you/#comment-2223 ika Sat, 09 Feb 2008 13:42:18 +0000 http://www.candymag.com/katie/2007/05/15/which-one-are-you/#comment-2223 i guess i need help in knowing which one i am. thanks for tips anyway. i guess i need help in knowing which one i am. thanks for tips anyway.

]]> By: layla http://www.candymag.com/katie/2007/05/15/which-one-are-you/#comment-2076 layla Thu, 13 Dec 2007 01:17:45 +0000 http://www.candymag.com/katie/2007/05/15/which-one-are-you/#comment-2076 has anyone heard of the saying Shame on you if you fooled me once. Shame on me if you fooled me twice.</blockquote> I have been through it. It complicated things. At least Katie, you had your mum with you. You were certainly lucky. I didn't. Because in the "legal" sense, my relationship with my ex was more clandestine. Like drug dealing operations, it was underground. Now that he wants it (our relationship) back...I am deciding pa. I don't know when he'll be visiting kasi he'll be traveling from other countries pa. So here goes. I don't know what to do now and when to decide kasi hindi ko alam ang deadline. Kahit anong sabihin mo, I can't leave the guy hanging. FYI: When he cheated on me the second time...that was before I entered Law school. I decided I couldn't deal with a philandering boyfriend and an even more demanding lifestyle of being a law student. I chose Law school. Even when I was on the verge of being kicked out by that school (due to maintaining GPA issues), I had ABSOLUTELY NO REGRETS choosing Law school. I went after a dream that was more important than a boy who will never be content with what I can give. I chose a future life work that would fulfill me than moping after a boy who will be in another girl's bed making a notch on her bedpost. has anyone heard of the saying

Shame on you if you fooled me once. Shame on me if you fooled me twice.

I have been through it. It complicated things. At least Katie, you had your mum with you. You were certainly lucky. I didn’t. Because in the “legal” sense, my relationship with my ex was more clandestine. Like drug dealing operations, it was underground.

Now that he wants it (our relationship) back…I am deciding pa. I don’t know when he’ll be visiting kasi he’ll be traveling from other countries pa. So here goes. I don’t know what to do now and when to decide kasi hindi ko alam ang deadline. Kahit anong sabihin mo, I can’t leave the guy hanging.

FYI: When he cheated on me the second time…that was before I entered Law school. I decided I couldn’t deal with a philandering boyfriend and an even more demanding lifestyle of being a law student. I chose Law school. Even when I was on the verge of being kicked out by that school (due to maintaining GPA issues), I had ABSOLUTELY NO REGRETS choosing Law school. I went after a dream that was more important than a boy who will never be content with what I can give. I chose a future life work that would fulfill me than moping after a boy who will be in another girl’s bed making a notch on her bedpost.

]]> By: ♥ f a t i m a ♥ http://www.candymag.com/katie/2007/05/15/which-one-are-you/#comment-2063 ♥ f a t i m a ♥ Mon, 10 Dec 2007 04:43:21 +0000 http://www.candymag.com/katie/2007/05/15/which-one-are-you/#comment-2063 wELL.. i gUess i'LL bE thE sEcOnd tyPE.. i cAn't aFfoRd tO bE brOken bY a gUy wHO'S nOt EvEn wOrthY tO havE mE.. i woULd oNLy exErt eFfOrt tO thE oNe whO aPprEciatEs mE anD reaLizEs my wOrthy,, thE gUy whO dEsErVes my tEaRs anD my aLL.. hE iS thE gUy whO woULdn't even Let oNe drOp of tEar faLL dOwn fRom mY eyE.. sO iF thE reLatiOnsHip iS sHaky, i wOuLd ratHEr lEt go than tOrtuRe mysELf with sOme nOneSeNsE jOke.. wHat'S mEant tO bE wiLL finD it'S way anYway :p wELL.. i gUess i’LL bE thE sEcOnd tyPE.. i cAn’t aFfoRd tO bE brOken bY a gUy wHO’S nOt EvEn wOrthY tO havE mE.. i woULd oNLy exErt eFfOrt tO thE oNe whO aPprEciatEs mE anD reaLizEs my wOrthy,, thE gUy whO dEsErVes my tEaRs anD my aLL.. hE iS thE gUy whO woULdn’t even Let oNe drOp of tEar faLL dOwn fRom mY eyE.. sO iF thE reLatiOnsHip iS sHaky, i wOuLd ratHEr lEt go than tOrtuRe mysELf with sOme nOneSeNsE jOke.. wHat’S mEant tO bE wiLL finD it’S way anYway :p

]]> By: fem http://www.candymag.com/katie/2007/05/15/which-one-are-you/#comment-2040 fem Sun, 02 Dec 2007 12:26:27 +0000 http://www.candymag.com/katie/2007/05/15/which-one-are-you/#comment-2040 i don't know which one i am... :) i don’t know which one i am… :)

]]> By: xelle http://www.candymag.com/katie/2007/05/15/which-one-are-you/#comment-2004 xelle Sun, 25 Nov 2007 14:00:22 +0000 http://www.candymag.com/katie/2007/05/15/which-one-are-you/#comment-2004 aw,,, i'm the first one... i'm always like that and i hate it! I am the kind who keeps on holding on to a relationship up to the last minute. i admit, those are the times i feel like im really stupid. It will take a while before i come to the realization that there's nothing worth saving. Sometimes, we just have to be brave to accept the reality that you're just not meant to be. Acceptance is really a great help in moving on...c: aw,,, i’m the first one… i’m always like that and i hate it! I am the kind who keeps on holding on to a relationship up to the last minute. i admit, those are the times i feel like im really stupid. It will take a while before i come to the realization that there’s nothing worth saving. Sometimes, we just have to be brave to accept the reality that you’re just not meant to be. Acceptance is really a great help in moving on…c:

]]> By: pie http://www.candymag.com/katie/2007/05/15/which-one-are-you/#comment-1965 pie Mon, 12 Nov 2007 12:50:09 +0000 http://www.candymag.com/katie/2007/05/15/which-one-are-you/#comment-1965 the first one. probably because im afraid of actually ending relationships..because i cant possibly see how im going to be without that person. but in the end i always find myself laughing at ME.at how narrowminded i got when the relationship was at the edge of the cliff. because really, letting go isnt so bad when everything's going down hill and you're still trying to make it work. sometimes the best solution is to let go and let both of you BREATHE :p the first one. probably because im afraid of actually ending relationships..because i cant possibly see how im going to be without that person. but in the end i always find myself laughing at ME.at how narrowminded i got when the relationship was at the edge of the cliff. because really, letting go isnt so bad when everything’s going down hill and you’re still trying to make it work. sometimes the best solution is to let go and let both of you BREATHE :p

]]> By: flora http://www.candymag.com/katie/2007/05/15/which-one-are-you/#comment-1950 flora Tue, 06 Nov 2007 03:45:15 +0000 http://www.candymag.com/katie/2007/05/15/which-one-are-you/#comment-1950 The second one. I know that having a special someone is wonderful. Waking up in the morning with a smile because 'you' know someone loves you. I do believe that loving can be a vice too. And if one goes to extremes I don't know if s/he wouldn't feel betrayed, manipulated, rejected, etc. Inasmuch as love is the most beautiful thing it can also be the most terrifying. Love is not always sweet. And keeping the self in tact is better than looking at 'your' doom because 'you' have fallen to the game called LOVE. Oh I know this is my own cowardice maybe because I am too afraid of being rejected. I am vulnerable and I'd rather protect myself. The self is the most dangerous enemy. hehe The second one.

I know that having a special someone is wonderful. Waking up in the morning with a smile because ‘you’ know someone loves you. I do believe that loving can be a vice too. And if one goes to extremes I don’t know if s/he wouldn’t feel betrayed, manipulated, rejected, etc. Inasmuch as love is the most beautiful thing it can also be the most terrifying. Love is not always sweet. And keeping the self in tact is better than looking at ‘your’ doom because ‘you’ have fallen to the game called LOVE. Oh I know this is my own cowardice maybe because I am too afraid of being rejected. I am vulnerable and I’d rather protect myself. The self is the most dangerous enemy.

hehe

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