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How do you know?
So when does friendship end and romance begin? When do you start having more than friendly feelings for a friend? When it begins, does it hit you like a jackhammer, pounding on all your sensibilities and jarring you from out of your comfort zone? Or does it creep ever so slowly, almost unnoticeably, until one day you’re looking at someone you’ve looked at your whole life as if it’s the first time you’re seeing him?
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August 9th, 2006 at 4:38 pm
one thing more…being so jealous
August 9th, 2006 at 6:52 pm
Suddenly, you want to be with the person all the time!
August 9th, 2006 at 7:15 pm
All I have to say is it’s very DIFFICULT!
August 10th, 2006 at 11:42 am
“You’ll never realize that you’re falling in love.”
August 10th, 2006 at 1:55 pm
czarina’s right, you tend to become very jealous especially when he looks at other girls…
August 10th, 2006 at 2:01 pm
Love is really blind, right?
August 10th, 2006 at 4:39 pm
it was so difficult.. i’ve fallen in a love with a bestfriend.. and we end up being together..ü
August 10th, 2006 at 5:13 pm
it really hard tolove your friend,, I did like my best guy friend once although it dint work out because he left our school and study somewhere else,,
August 10th, 2006 at 5:49 pm
you’ll keep on denying your feelings…because you never want to ruin your friendship…
August 10th, 2006 at 6:02 pm
its confusing.. u have to hide ur feelings for that sum1 bec ur afraid that he’s not filing the same way…
August 10th, 2006 at 8:37 pm
That is so true… I’m going through that right now… I keep denying it… because I value the friendship too much… it sucks big time.
August 11th, 2006 at 8:50 pm
i would have to agree with Lucy. love really IS blind. Ü
August 12th, 2006 at 9:24 am
Well..I’m currently falling for my guy friend..And the thing is…he has a girl. And I only knew 4 weeks ago I think..He said it’s okay that I like him..And he says I should get over him..but he won’t tell me why. Maybe because he doesn’t want me to get hurt or something..Still, I just can’t forget about him even if I tell others I’m over him. Argh. At least there’s no awkward-ness between us..And to think I’m friends with his girl T__T.
August 12th, 2006 at 3:58 pm
you will never know that you will fall with ur best bud you will just realize that ur feelings for him is changing
August 13th, 2006 at 9:21 am
when you suddenly miss the person and when you think of him it makes you wanna smile.
August 18th, 2006 at 6:09 pm
when you feel like you can give up anything for that person.
August 21st, 2006 at 3:43 pm
its when you see him differently from the way you did when your just plain and simple FRIENDS……
August 27th, 2006 at 6:19 pm
ionno..its really weird and unpredictable..
August 29th, 2006 at 11:33 am
you worry more than before, you take care of him/her unusual and unintentionally, you wanna be with him/her all the time… it’s very complicated…
September 2nd, 2006 at 5:17 pm
it’s really a hard thing to fall for a friend who already has a girl. i agree with lez. you tend to hide and deny the feelings you have because you just get scared of ruining the friendship. but, just like what my guy friend said, you should just love. that’s the best thing you can do.
September 4th, 2006 at 9:58 am
i’m experiencing it now….and its so damn hard…
September 6th, 2006 at 2:08 pm
it’s really difficult, even if he also feels the same way as you do.. you just can’t enter a relationship right away..
September 29th, 2006 at 1:54 pm
you know wat? its been two years since i have not seen my best guy friend and we dont even have communication (maybe its because im busy and he is too).. but i still remember the times we spent together.. i totally regreted that i never told him that i had feelings for him because i was afraid that it might ruin our friendship..i was coward right? and i kept on pretending that i only treat him as a friend but deep inside i wish that could tell him…maybe when the right time comes i’ll have the courage to say that i had feeligs for him before and everything will (i hope) turn out fine..l
October 6th, 2006 at 9:30 pm
what a nice question.
1. you’ll think of him MORE than usual
2. when you think of him, there is this weird feeling you will expirience
3. your heart beats fast when he passes by
4. you get butterflies when he talks to you
5. you talk to yourself a lot.
6. you start to be more aware of how you look
i guess thats it.
October 11th, 2006 at 6:38 am
When I was in high school all the while I was pretending… Living a lie… I couldn’t tell him how much I love him because I knew it’d just blow over our friendship. and I couldn’t take that. I didn’t want him to go away from me. So as hard as I could, it was I who moved away…
January 25th, 2007 at 7:45 pm
you just know but you can’t admit it..
what’s worse,it hurts..
T_T
to all the girls who’s also stuck to this messy situation,let’s clean this up..
make things black and white..
know where u and ur guy FRIEND stand.
pff..i wish someone could tell me this…
June 27th, 2007 at 3:19 pm
ohh…that’s a tough one,HUH?!?!I find pretty hard to coment!But maybe i agree with czarina.And that’s it.Don’t know what to coment!=( Srry..
August 27th, 2007 at 4:05 pm
both!!!!!!!!!! you’ll notice that your friend looks god or he’s hot… then it’ll hit you… that suddenly you like him
October 28th, 2007 at 10:25 am
nice blog. i can relate to it now cuz there’s this flirty girl who’s txting my bf with this i dont really like msgs. he’s telling him he rocks her heart and will all those mwahh and i hope you will find your dream girl. duh, she’s evem claiming that were freinds if she considers me as one of her friends, then she wouldnt tell my bf that she hopes that he will find his dreamgirl.
October 28th, 2007 at 10:26 am
lools like i made a mistake in leaving my comment. sa deconstructing the enemy ko pla dpat to ilagay
November 27th, 2007 at 9:19 am
whew!! i just love the topic..
i thinks it’s about embraciong the fact that you are already falling for a friend.. that’s when you can go around freely despite the pain bcoz finally, you recognize the emotion that you’re having for him after a long time..
December 10th, 2007 at 12:52 pm
hOw dO yOu knOw? it’S simPLe.. u fEeL a stRangE fEeLiNg yOu havEn’t fELt bEfOre.. anD yOu stArt aSkinG yOUr sELf, “Is this love? And if you feel the same way, is this the beginning?”
It is when your heart keeps saying it loves him and the more the world listens
the louder it yells it.
you’ll realize that your head started to keep thinking of him.
The thoughts would appear once and twice.
The thoughts kept growing and your heart gets confused.
Your heart keeps loving him.
It’s screaming for the whole world to hear.
December 18th, 2007 at 5:58 pm
i felt this before. it makes you feel like you want to be with him more, you love talking to him, you get jealous over the smallest detail like he’s talking to a girl, it’s really hard to realize but then it hits you like a bullet.
December 22nd, 2007 at 7:26 pm
huhu..actually im struggling with that eeling now..I know we are juz friends but my heart just palpitate in a different rhythmn..One thing i know, i have 2 stop this before i’ll definitely lose my sanity…
December 22nd, 2007 at 7:28 pm
stick to the mind over heart attitude..we gurls should know when to fight in the battlefield of love..fallin for a friend will just give us heartaches..
January 11th, 2008 at 1:36 pm
i don’t have a boy friend that turned out into my boyfriend… so take it from an outsiders POV… let’s just say that love moves in mysterious ways…
January 15th, 2008 at 3:29 pm
well.. i guess when do you also say that it’s only infatuation?! a liking maybe?!
im kinda feeling this thing right now with my friend.. but worst is he has GF?!
and much worst is he’s not from this country…
February 16th, 2008 at 8:31 pm
actually, falling for your best friend isn’t at all that bad. i’m going through it right now. the best thing you could probably do is to tell him. this way, you’d be more honest with each other and besides, it’d be better if he hears it from you rather than from someone else. but this is just in my opinion. in the end, it’ll all be up to you if you’d tell him or not.