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Stop the Body Hating

When does hatred for a body part become too much, or worse—deadly?
by Jillian Gatcheco, Contributing Writer
Illustration by Momon Corpuz * Special thanks to Ms. Jeanette Lane B. Soraino OTRP, University of Perpetual Help System Dalta, 871-0639

March 17, 2010 08:00 pm

IMAGINED UGLINESS

Miles* 12, hated her wavy hair so much that she had it rebounded every month. After a year, her hair became brittle and fell off her scalp. Lian*, 21, spent all her money on facial products. Sometimes, her skin bled from all the induced peeling. Then there's Sarah, 22, who shared her heartrending tale in Candy's January-February 2008 issue. She binged and purged too much that she developed hepatitis and put her life at risk.

CONSEQUENCES

"We cannot blame teenage girls if they take hours to get ready or if they won't touch a chocolate chip cookie, "says occupational therapist Jeanette Lane B. Soriano, OTRP. " In their favorite TV series, the lead actress is sizzling hot in her tank top and shorts. The media plays an enormous role in putting in their young minds that a perfect body is zero in fat."

Girls are generally sensitive about their appearance during their teens because of major physical changes. Ms. Soriano says that it's okay to be image-conscious as long at it's not taking over your life.

Miles used to spend hours every day ironing her hair, that she usually skipped breakfast or risked being late to school. If her waves weren't straight enough, she'd fuss over them nonstop and be distracted from school work. When hair clumps fell off after consecutive rebonding treatments, her hat became a constant reminder of what she had done.

Lian obsessed about occasional blemishes and noticed the minutes detail about her nice complexion. " Once I had a blackhead on my chin that I pricked, and it got infected and became a big zit. It got so bad that I avoided eye contact and lied to friends as an excuse to stay home," she shares.

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  • angelica 1
    I think the bullies should read this.
    May 30 2011 @ 05:19pm
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  • janelle 2
    This article really helped me a lot. :)
    May 30 2011 @ 02:26pm
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  • violetfreak96 3
    I don't really hate my body but people around me does,because i'm fat.And it really hurts when they say bad things about your body.
    May 22 2011 @ 05:45pm
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  • Ana 4
    I hate my body so much. people make fun at me when I was in elementary school. When I was in Grade 7, i got angry when someone call me "*gly". I cried a lot. But, many years gone by. I have zits all over my face, chest, and back. I want it all disappear forever. I watch tv about celebrities who are flawless. Now, what makes me beautiful, is to be proud of my talent, and brilliance.
    Dec 11 2010 @ 07:37pm
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  • greenflaredskirt 5
    Same experience with Lian. T_T
    Apr 02 2010 @ 06:04pm
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